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July 10, 2022

Three Days in Antigua, Guatemala for First-timers

a Global Belle admires the beautiful Santa Catalina Arc in Antigua Guatemala. there's two pictures side by side. in the first she's wearing a yellow crop top and hi-lo skirt holding a hat that ha s"summer vibes embroidered. In the second picture, she has on a peach, mustard, and orange color block, long sundress and wearing the straw hat. In both pics, Volcano Fuego peaks out behind the arch.

There’s plenty to keep a tourist busy for three days in this UNESCO World Heritage site. This charming colonial town, surrounded by three volcanos, is full of quaint shops, restaurants, museums, and colonial ruins (although, you’ll have to take a long bus ride or short plane ride for older, Mayan ruins).  Three days in Antigua, Guatemala is enough time to pack a lot of activities in this lively yet understated city that has maintained its colonial heritage. For those short on time, here are my high-priority must-do items when visiting Antigua in three days for first-timers. 

DAY 1 in Antigua Guatemala

Charneice poses in front of Santa Catalina Arch in Antigua, Guatemala. this is Antigua's most photographed tourist site.
Santa Catalina Arch is Antigua, Guatemala’s most photographed tourist site.

Get your picture at Santa Catalina Arch with Volcano Fuego in the background before the crowds. The days in Antigua get started a little later (and end later) than what most Americans are accustomed to. Early morning, that is before 8 am, is the perfect time to take pictures in Central Park before the crowds. If you want a small bite or drink, stop at one of my favorite coffee shops (El Portal Café II… don’t forget the 2) and the Starbucks on the same street. While Starbucks opens at 6am. Most other coffee shops do not. Trust me, you do not want to leave Antigua without stopping at the Starbucks. 

Then head up to Cerro de la Cruz. You’ll have the best views with the lowest chance of clouds first thing in the morning during the rainy season (June-Oct). But dry season sunsets are also magical here. 

By the time you climb down from the hill, more cafes and shops will be open. Take some time just to poke around and appreciate the city’s architecture. 

Head over to Caoba Farms for a farm-to-table brunch. It’s about a 20-minute walk from the heart of town. This vibe is especially great on Sundays with a live band. Even during the week, it’s great. Don’t forget to coat yourself with bug repellant. Be forewarned that bottled water here is $5 Norweigen Voss water. 

Back in the town, visit The Chocolate Museum in the square with Central Park. Stroll the Mercado and Nim Pot Handicraft Market, with less chaos than the Mercado. Don’t leave without checking out the Starbucks (on the same street as Catalina Arch), McDonald’s, and Taco Bell. 

Then have your siesta and relax, get washed up, and gussied up for the evening. 

For dinner, head back toward Central Park. Eat traditional French cuisine overlooking ruins at sunset at Tartines. DO NOT MISS THE SUNSET here! This French Bistro claims to have the best terrace views in Antigua and that’s no cap. The golden hour glow over the ruins of the Cathedral de Santiago ruins with volcanos in the background is breathtaking.

Let your evening adventures lead you to drinks at Antigua Brewing Company (ABC). During the day, this place has terrific rooftop views perfect for burgers and beers. When night falls, a live band alters the chill vibe to a party place. There’s a random London telephone booth in the corner. For a memorable experience that you’ll speakeasy about to other travelers, you’ll want to check it out (wink, wink).  

Dance the night away with salsa at Las Palmas. On Sunday nights, La Sala offers FREE Salsa lessons. New Sensation on 7 Avenida Norte #78 also offers free salsa classes on Monday and Thursday at 5 pm. Don’t let not having all the latest moves stop you from jumping on the dance floor.

DAY 2 in Antigua Guatemala

Hobbitenago 20 minutes outside of antigua, Guatemala was built with tourist photography in mind. It's also a wonderful place for lunch.
Hobbitenago was built with tourist photography in mind. It’s also a wonderful place for lunch.

The first stop of the morning is Hobbitenago & Altamira. You’ll want to be Instagram-ready for the picturesque views here. Be sure to linger at Hobbitenango for lunch.

You’ll need an Uber for this 20-minute drive. Every Uber will copy and paste the same message in Spanish about how gas is so expensive; instead of the rate Uber charges, they need 100Q instead. If you do not agree to this, they will cancel the request. This will happen over and over. You can try your luck in getting a driver from out of town who doesn’t know the conspiracy, but just accept that you’ll pay 100Q ($12) in cash for the ride.

Both photographable sites are located beside each other. You’ll take another little truck, and need to hike a bit to get to the location. Once on the hill linger for lunch. Try the swing. Make half a day of it. 

Back in town consider strolling the cathedrals and ruins. Do not pass over: 

San Francisco Church

The Remains Of Cathedral De Santiago

Centro de Formacion de la Cooperacian Espanol (free)

Biblioteka (free)

DAY 3 in Antigua Guatemala

Fuego from Cerro de la Cruz

Roast Marshemelos on Pacaya Volcano.  You must hike with a guide and they’re all going to run you about $60 but feel free to shop around. Two sessions leave at 6:00 AM or 2:00 PM. The morning is the better option for visibility.  You’ll take a 1-hour drive to the base of the volcano, then hike an easy 1.5 hours. The tour provides marshmallows. it does not provide graham crackers or chocolate. If you’d rather ride than hike, you have the option of doing Volcan Pacaya on horseback. This costs around Q100 ($ 12 USD) and is paid directly to the riding guide.

Other Options

Back in town, you may want to just relax or aimlessly wander the cobblestoned calles of the colonial village. Or perhaps, if you have time take an uber to Santo Domingo del Cerro.

Take A Coffee Tour at De La Gente Coffee Farm in La Azotea. The most economical way is to take a chicken bus for $1USD (the terminal is behind the mercado) and then pay $7 for the tour. If you go with a private tour company, you’ll pay $25.   Another coffee tour option is Tour Rural de Café/ Coffee Tour or Take a uber to Finca Filadelfia for bird-watching and coffee tour and lunch at a restaurant in gorgeous surroundings. You have options here.

Try a cooking class with La Tortilla Cooking School   Learn how to make tortillas from scratch along with Guatemalan traditional foods like Pepian, Jocon, Kak’ik, and Rellenitos de Platano.

If textiles are your thing, consider the Cultural and Textile Half-Day Tour

Cruise around town on a Antigua ATV Sunset Tour.

You have so many options to spend three days in Antigua, Guatemala. For some activities, I’d just leave the day open and consider going with the flow and filling the day as you see fit. You can schedule tours with the countless tour agencies once you get to Antigua or have your hotel help with the arrangements. If you’re planning a Baecation, be sure to check out this post for hotel recommendations.

The Most Romantic Hotels In Antigua, Guatemala

a terrace in one of the most romatic hotels in antigua guatemala

Let me plan your next Beacation for you! Nothing sets the mood right for a romantic rendezvous like a luxurious, hotel with all the amenities and few distractions. This isn’t a sponsored post. When I visited these hotels, the light bulb went off. I thought...Oh, this is where I’d stay on a romantic holiday. For help building the perfect itinerary, check out this post for a long weekend. If you’re in Guatemala for a whole week, check this itinerary out. With no further ado, here are the four absolute most romantic hotels in Antigua, Guatemala.

El Convento Boutique Hotel

This is my absolute top choice of romantic hotels in Antigua, Guatemala. The exclusivity of a boutique hotel with limited guestrooms will always reign ideal for romance. The Convento offers that exclusivity with only 27, uniquely designed suites. Each has intricately hand-carved doors depicting an image from Antigua’s rich history. The contemporary colonial architecture and laid-back elegance of each room provide the perfect setting to focus on each other. Select a suite with a private, outdoor jacuzzi and fireplace. You’re going to want a whole day just hanging out at the hotel with each other. Fortunately, the dining menu kitchen and in-room services prevent you from having to stray too far. The boutique hotel is perfectly located in the heart of the city but offers a quiet and serene environment.

Another excellent choice is….

With its Spanish-Moorish architectural details and seclusion, The Pensativo House Hotel makes a great setting for a romantic hotel in Antigua, Guatemala.
I walked through and was like, “Are you serious?! this hotel is amazing!”

Pensativo House Hotel

Located in a quiet, more remote, residential part of town, this adults-only hotel will make you feel like part of the Spanish Colonial aristocracy. With its Spanish-Moorish architectural and design elements The Pensativo makes a choice location for hosting grand soirées and easy-going brunches. This 26-room boutique hotel offers an intimate hospitality experience. The hotel offers in-room spa and massage services. I can’t choose what I love more, the rooftop dining views or the food itself. Both are exquisite. Plus, it’s a sustainable property for you can enjoy guilt-free indulgence.

With only 7 immaculately appointed rooms Posada Del Angel is one of the most romantic hotels in Antigua

Posada Del Angel  

Right next door to Pensativo and tying for the second position is Posada del Angel This boutique only has 7 well-appointed suites providing guests with a personalized experience and first-class service. It’s almost as if you are personally invited to the home of a stylish dignitary. Each room is equipped with a fireplace. The Rose Suite is fit for a president — Bill Clinton once stayed here. The private terrace, extra large jacuzzi, and views make it baecation approved. I must point out that the doorframes were not carved out with tall people in mind. They’re 5’10” instead of the standard American door height of 80 inches (6’8”). The lap pool in the garden courtyard is pretty to use or just to view. This is the best place for private seclusion.

Casa Santo Domingo

Rounding out the list of top romantic hotels in Antigua, Guatemala is Casa Santo Domingo. This hotel and spa were built on an archeological site. The hotel is now the restoration project of the earthquake-ruined Convent of Santo Domingo, one of the largest convents in the world at one point. History nerds like me will appreciate the attention to detail in the historic preservation of this archeological site. Art and nature enthusiasts may welcome the art, terraces, panoramic views, pool, and spa. Everyone will love the dining experience. It’s first-class all the way. It welcomes more guests than boutique hotels so it’s a little less intimate. However, with it being a former holy place, there’s a centuries-old built-in chapel perfect for hosting weddings and it’s popular for wedding receptions and grand quinceanera fetes. The staff knows how to throw a party.

NEW! Villa Bokah

Since writing this article, I’ve become aware of an absolutely exquisite boutique hotel just a short walk outside of Antigua. Villa Bokah prides itself in creating romantic moments for its guest. With a charming row boat so you can channel your own lake scene like the uber-romantic scene from the Notebook. Th designers really had a field day with this space. It’s only been open a year and is part of a small luxury family of hotels in Guatemala. Although it is super continental, it maintains local, cultural touches.

With each of these hotels, be sure to have a phone call directly with the hotel to discuss the occasion and specific needs of the room. Perhaps a private balcony, panoramic views, in-room massage appointment pre-scheduled, or wine chilling when you arrive floats your boat. These hotels will make it happen for you.

In North America on
January 22, 2020

Black Ski Week in Breckinridge, Colorado

Friends gather by the Breckinridge town sign

First Trip of 2020: Black Ski Week in Breckinridge, Colorado

I just got back home from a glorious, long weekend in Colorado. The Annual Black Ski Week takes place at various slopes across the US and abroad. This year, we hosted our own mini Black Ski Week, separate from the official events. Last summer, a group of single, Army officers planned a weekend ski trip. That small group continued to grow.  I’ll get to writing the travel essay ASAP but for those planning future trips to Breckinridge soon, here’s the logistical breakdown to help you plan a group trip of your own.

Altitude

First things first, that high altitude is no joke. You may think you’re all tough and in shape, but the lack of oxygen in Breckinridge, Colorado will get you. Be sure to prepare for high altitude like a pro.

Human bodies start to react differently to the changes in oxygen levels at altitudes around 4,921 ft.  The base of Breckenridge, Colorado, is 9,600 feet. The summit of some ski resorts is upwards of 13,000 above sea level. To put it in perspective, the Altitude of Cusco, Peru is 11,200 feet.  The altitude of Colorado Springs is 6,035 feet above sea level and Denver’s Altitude is 5,130 ft above sea level.

And just for kicks, the altitude of Boston, where I’ve resided for the past three years, is 141 feet above sea level. The elevation of my hometown in Owensboro, Kentucky, is 394 feet above sea level. For whatever strand of reasoning I applied, I was under the impression that since I adapted to Cusco’s altitude (three years ago) and since Denver and Colorado Springs didn’t bother me, I’d be unphased by a couple thousand more feet. That was a terrible assumption.

Carrying my luggage up the steps had me wheezing like I just sprinted a 100-meter dash.  I avoided unnecessary trips to the next floor because it was a workout. If I left my phone charger upstairs, that’s just where it was going to have to stay, and my battery was going to have to die because my lungs were put to the test. Walking a flat surface wasn’t much better. We rented another cabin four houses down. However, walking my normal pace of 140 steps a minute might as well have been a performance mile run. I was always out of breath by the time I got to the next house about 300 feet away.  

High elevations cause nausea, vomiting, dizziness, bloody noses, headache, fatigue, and just overall unwellness. The symptoms should be over within three days. Overall, your body will adapt and you can just deal with the discomfort and do nothing. But if you’re short on time and need to press through the symptoms quickly, here are a few tips:

  1. I’d suggest taking it easy on the physical activities before then so you have time to adjust.  I slept a whole day, waking up only to eat. Rest is a good thing.
  2. If you smoke or have cardiac problems, check with a doc before you travel.  
  3. Alcohol doesn’t help anything. Now, I’m not going to tell you to avoid turning up, but just know, high altitude already feels like a hangover when you’re sober. High Altitude hangovers are on another level of discomfort.
  4. They say drinking water helps. I drank hella gallons and was still sick for three days. 
  5. In Cusco, the indigenous people used coca plants to fight altitude sickness. Not sure how legal that is in the US, if you can get it in the US, or if it’ll show in urine tests. Sorojchi pills were recommended in Cusco. Goody’s powder and standard pain relief is good to have on hand to deal with the headaches.
  6. Oxishot! All the sporting stores in Breckinridge sell Oxishots. It’s a can with 8 liters of oxygen. It costs about $16. It’s fast acting and pretty awesome.  

*** I have never had a bloody nose ever in life, and I didn’t have one here. But apparently, dang near everyone else did. So, if you’re a nose bleeder, expect it. ****

Black Ski Week Meals

City Market (at 400 North Parkway) is actually a Kroger with an alpine facade. They deliver, so plan your menus and pre-order your ingredients on-line. If feeding a crowd and you have some chefs (southerners) in your group, this is your best bet. The town square does have plenty of satisfactory restaurants (albeit a challenging parking situation).

We were fortunate enough to arrive with a van of phenomenal home chefs. Here’s some of the menus we ate:  

One of many trips to Kroger.

Breakfast: Omelets & scrambled eggs (our house of 14 ran through 18 eggs in one morning), bacon (two pounds a day), sausage, muffins, french toast, grits, & coffee

Lunch: sandwiches, pizza (3 per day)

Dinner: Gumbo, BBQ lamb, smoked sausages, ribs, southern mac & cheese, hot chocolate, tacos, grilled corn on the cob

Late night: Baked ham & cheese sliders, whipped cream

All-day snacks: chips & dip, olives, cookies, drinks

Oh, and remember that high-altitude air pressure not only has an effect on humans but also on baking.  You’re going to need to adjust the temperature, time, and ingredients for any baking you’re going to do. Check out King Author Flour for cooking guides. You’re going to need cases and cases of water. Bring plenty of Sharpies so people don’t take a sip and forget which bottle is theirs. Colorful ponytail holders around the bottle work in identifying the bottle as well.  

Lodging

Our group of 35 chose Paragon Lodging, a luxury vacation rental agency, to house our group for the long weekend. Chelsea House and Claire’s Cabin were gorgeous homes outfitted for entertaining. Chelsea (where I slept) had 6000+ square, 6 bedrooms, and 4.5 baths feet giving all 14 of us elbow room and quiet spaces for us introverts to recharge from time to time. It was tucked away with a driveway set from the main road with gorgeous woodland mountain views.  The kitchen (although illogically organized) was a foodie’s dream, and the collection of books located around the home was also impressive. The house also has maintenance workers come shovel snow from the drive and deck (around the hot tub). There’s no lifting a finger.

The rental company gives you a starter supply of toiletries but you will need to put toilet paper on your shopping list. Factoring in the amount of water hydration everyone will need to acclimate to the altitude, bloody noses, and alcohol consumption, I’d suggest no less than two rolls per person per day (Start off with two 24-roll packs).  You’ll likely also need dish detergent, trash bags, and laundry detergent.

Both met my bougie expectations. The homes did not exceed my expectations only because none of the exterior doors were locked. That’s kind of a security concern…hopefully, the company gets that maintenance issue taken care of. But I’d definitely recommend it. It was a perfect choice for the weekend.

I can’t personally vouch for these. However, other luxury properties that appear to be similar in styling in the area include River Ridge Rentals, Majestic Breckinridge Lodging, and Pinnacle Lodging.

Packing

Of course, we overpacked.  Just about everyone prepared for the arctic apocalypse. Just remember, everything that everyone packs will need to fit in the trunk of a car. Even with bulky snow gear, I am confident everything you need for a four-day weekend ski trip can fit in two carry-ons.

Fitting all our luggage & all the people in cars was a logistical feat.

Here’s what you need:

  1. Socks, gloves, hat & Undies – self-explanatory. Go for a couple of pairs of wool socks if you can because once cotton socks get wet, it’s over for you.
  2. Thermals/waffles/under armor— Just a dry-wick base layer to keep you warm
  3. Sweater/Sweatshirt to wear over your base layer.
  4. Ski Jacket & Ski pants (1 each). If you’re military and don’t have snow gear or don’t want to deal with checking it oversized luggage, check out the MWR or Outdoor rec to rent it. I never considered renting because I just thought it would be crappy gear. It’s not! For $5 per day, you get well-maintained and fashionable ski pants and ski jacket. Don’t worry about packing it either, Ft Carson and Peterson, AFB are located near the closest Airports to Breck. Check out 21fss.com.
  5. Snow boots. Sorels are my favorite but since I’ve yet to have my boots returned from my trip to Germany this time last year, there are some other more affordable options.
  6. Comfy clothes – for loafing around the cabin. Pants/leggings, shorts, onsie, tees, tanks, jammies. Don’t go overboard here.
  7. Shower shoes/flops for the walk from the deck door to the hot tub. I mean, I did it barefoot and it didn’t bother me but, flip flops would have been nice.
  8. Something to look cute at the bar if you choose to go. Do not bring stilettos to a snowy mountain. Life will not go well for you.
  9. Toiletries – You’re going to be ashy. Your lips are going to be chapped. Your nose is going to be dry and maybe bleed. Be prepared.
  10. Hot Tub Attire
  11. Games. No Black Ski Week Apres Ski is complete without Uno. Spades. Taboo. Black Card Revoked. Bring on the Games!
This is the type of winter weather gear the 21st Force Support Squadron MWR rents to service members. Photo by @thefinalkutphotography

Transportation

You have a couple of options for transportation. Breckinridge is about two hours from the Denver Airport (which is on the far side of Denver from Breckinridge).

A couple of shuttle companies charge $40 per passenger for a one-way pick up from the airport to the cabin. Summit Express (855.686.8267) and Peak 1 (970. 724.7241) are both shared shuttles that provide this service.

Black Mountain Limo is a luxury private service that charges $400 per trip.

If your flight lands at a time that allows, you can take the A-train to Union Station, switch to the Bustang, and then to the Summit Stage, which will take you from the Denver airport to downtown Breckenridge for less than $20 per person.

An Uber or Lyft typically costs $150 per person one way if you want to consider that.

Depending on the size of your group and flight schedule, it might be more economical to rent a tricked-out soccer mom van for the duration of the time on the mountain. Hotwire.com tends to have phenom deals.  

Activities

Even though it’s Black Ski Week, it doesn’t mean all your time has to be spent on downhill adventures. Breckenridge offers so many other winter activities to experience! We had a blast using Good Time Adventures as our one-stop shop for snowmobiling, tubing, and dog sledding through the Alpine trails. They also offer horse sleigh rides. 

Y’all, I cannot stress enough, that those little, cute huskies run as fast as the mountain wind does blow. Those six little dogs run 30 miles per hour. Utilize the break on the sled. If you fly off the sled, they will keep running and your partner is going to be sitting there enjoying the view, not even realizing you’re no longer driving the sled. Use. The. Break.

Breckinridge, of course, is the local ski resort, super close to the cabins.  Their lift passes work at Keystone (about 40 minutes away). So you can ski Breck during the day, take a break, then do night skiing at Keystone all on the same lift pass.

Horseback riding- I didn’t even try to go riding because it was cold AF. But Breckinridge does offer several stables in operation during the cold months. Keystone’s ski resort also has stables.

Just remember, all physical activities are harder to do at high altitudes. Regardless if it’s dancing, skiing, dog sledding, or any other physical activity (raised eyebrow, to hint at a euphemism) — ALL physical activities are harder in high altitude.

Lastly, the best time you’ll have is the time you spend in the company of good friends. Keep the conversations flowing, the music bumping, and the vibes high. Just enjoy being young, wild, and free.  

Two love birds met on an annual trip a few years ago and still traveling together today.

Black Ski Week is a time for camaraderie and enjoying winter sports in a culturally nurturing way. There’s not one way to have an epic Black Ski Week. I think that covers everything you need to host your own Black Ski Week in Breckinridge, Colorado. Let me know if I didn’t cover something.

Weekend Getaway in Miami Budget Breakdown

Charneice McKenzie relaxes on the beac in a Miami beach chair

Like many Bostonians, I took advantage of the February break to defrost in warm, sunny Miami, Florida. I decided to go last minute and booked my first time in Miami a week in advance. When last-minute trips happen, I’m so grateful for the city guides of other travelers. It saves so much time. I started planning using Lee Tumbe’s 24 Hours in Miami as a guide, then tweaked to personalize. This extended weekend getaway in Miami on a budget guide accompanies Lee’s. I usually budget about $1K for a trip. I went a bit over due to last-minute planning this time. You can take my plans and tweak to your liking. Here’s my Miami weekend getaway budget breakdown.

Transportation (Flight + On-ground) = $673.91

Flight booked 5 days in advance $388.60 + optional Mileage booster ($40.31) + In-flight Wi-fi both ways ($20) + In-flight Dinner + Starbucks ($16) = $ 464.91.

I could have saved almost $80 by skipping the extras and packing my own meal to eat on the flight. I probably could have saved on the flight by booking well in advance. Roundtrips to Miami from Boston are often for under $200. Of course, these tickets are usually in the summer and summer isn’t exactly a preferred time to travel to Miami. I used Lyft from home pick up to airport, around Miami, and back home $212 (with change rounded up as a charity donation to the USO). It could have been made cheaper by not traveling back and forth from Miami Beach to Miami on several occasions (would have kept $45). If I had a friend to drop off and pick up at the airport, I could have reallocated $72. Or if I had traveled with a friend to split the costs. Oh well, so much for social currency. However, using Lyft as opposed to driving and parking at Logan International Airport ($95), renting a vehicle from Enterprise Rent-a-Car ($123 + fuel) and paying for hotel parking ($45 a night x 3 nights +tip & tax = $140) saved at least $146. I did, however, end up getting chauffeured around for free (my social currency has a better exchange rate in Miami than it does in Boston).

Check out fellow Kentucky native, Laura Coppelman’s creative work.

Hotels $638.66

For the purpose of travel blogging, I stayed at three different types of hotels at various price points. I also booked my hotels 17 hours before I got on the plane, on a major event (PRIDE) weekend, so I limited my options. None of the locations I chose had availability for the whole weekend, so la carte lodging was required. Had I stayed at the Generator Hostel the entire weekend I would have only spent $207. If I stayed at the Trade Winds Apartments the whole time, I could have tucked away $132.20. Had I booked The Confidante in advance, I could have stayed all weekend for the price that I paid moving from hotel to hotel. I also reserved my room through booking.com because the third-party site offered better rates than the hotel site. However, in hindsight, I might have been able to snag a better deal using my Hyatt membership, military discount, and collected the points I forfeited by using the third-party booking site. It’s also important to note, that all hotels and hostels have a resort tax that isn’t included in the advertised online price.

Generator $69 (includes $10 resort fee) trendy place for solo travelers to mix and mingle. My number one pick for a weekend getaway in Miami on a budget
Trade Winds Apartment Hotel $172 (includes $22.80 resort fee) Great for families who’d rather cook than eat out or people who want more space to feel more at home.
The Confidante $397.66 (includes $34 resort fee) Perfect for a beacation, group trip, or party weekend location. It’s a splurge if you’re staying alone but worth it if you’re splitting the cost.

Arial view of the bean-shaped pool at the Generator Miami, a budget-friendly Luxury hostel in Miami Beach
A Luxury Hostel seems like an oxymoron, but at the Generator Miami, they make it work.

Food $219.37

Friday
Arrived in time for a late dinner. Dinner was at no cost to me (using the social currency here).

Saturday
Generator breakfast $23.05
I Could have gotten a 20% discount using a special offer code from the Generator Ap but I got distracted by tattooed biceps and a sweet smile.

Voodoo Lounge Lunch (ceviche & margarita) $37.41
Sangria at Cubacho Art and Performing Arts Center $13
Paul Bakery Miami (two bottles of water) $6.50
Dinner at Giordano in South Beach Strip $50.19
Azucar Icecream $4.82

Sunday
Confidante Brunch $50 I was so tired I fell asleep through dinner and ate snacks when I woke up middle of the night.

Monday
Brunch at Dreamer Matcha Café $34.40 before catching a flight back home.
*In-flight dinner included in flight transportation expenses. **

I could have skipped Dreamer Café. Not only was it out of the way, costing me a lyft fee just to travel to it, but the food was also overpriced café food. And I knew it was going to be expensive before I went and I did it anyway for the Instagramable flamingo picture. Was $34.40 plus my lyft ride worth it? Nah.

I also didn’t take advantage of my hotel’s happy hour with free drinks when I stayed at Trade Winds. I did have meals, snacks, shots, and drinks paid for by gracious vacationers (male & female) that I met on the way. Restaurants in Miami Beach automatically collect a built-in gratuity. Of course, eating on the main strip of SoBe (South Beach as the locals call it) is going to have jacked-up prices, and that’s where I consumed three meals. There’s a couple of approaches that I think I could have cut this price down by 25%. Utilizing Restaurant.com, miamionthecheap.com, travelzoo.com, groupon.com, livingsocial.com and researching Miami’s best happy hours, food trucks, grocery stores, farmer’s markets, and cheapest restaurants, I think I could have eaten on $40 a day instead of $40 a meal.

Entertainment $10

Pictures with parrots in Little Havana $10
Vizcaya Museum and Gardens (Free for military members)*
Frost Science Museum (Free for military members)*
Pérez Art Museum Miami (Free for military members)*
Domino Park (Free for all)
Clubbing at Voodoo Lounge (Free for all, free drinks for me)**
Wynwood Walls (Free for all)
Miami Botanical Garden (Free for all)
The Beach (Free for all)
Hookah (Free for me)**
*Military ID cards come in handy
**Military camaraderie even when you don’t know each other comes in handy

The entertainment for a weekend getaway in Miami on a budget could be as simple as beach lounging and people-watching. Pride weekend also brought tons of entertainment to the beach. I just opted to go to museums and explore. And frankly, I probably would have been disappointed had I paid normal price for some of these locations.

Black girl with long ombre hair in a low pony tail takes a picture using a white, Pentax DSLR camera.  She stands with her legs are crossed in short shorts and a summer, translucent top revealing a black and white striped bandeau. She's photographing Miami's famous Vixcaya Gardens.
You definitely want to visit Vizcaya Museum and Gardens early for the best light for photographs and before too many visitors photo bomb your shots. Plus, it’s super hot mid-day and the outdoor gardens are the main event.

Extraneous travel-related Expenses $240.39

These expenses included: Dog Lodging for my pup back at home $189, Mani/Pedi in little Havana $30, I lost my beach hat, got a new one $21.39, Snacks & water from Walgreen’s $20

So, in total, a 4-day weekend to Miami ended up costing me $1,781.94 which could be a little steep for a long weekend. However, with more advanced planning, I could have reduced at least $100 in flight costs. Staying at The Generator all three nights would have saved me $451.66. Plotting a more efficient ground transportation root (including avoiding inadvertently going to a museum after it closed) would have reduced my transportation expenses $25 bringing that total down to $1082.56 which is more manageable. I’m sure I could have found other ways to shave even more dollars off. Finding cheaper restaurants off the tourist path and using the kindness of friends could have reduced costs. In all, for me, a grand for a weekend in Miami was well worth the change of scenery.

Be sure to check back for the next post that tells the stories of my adventures of culture, history, friends, and flirting in Miami Beach.

Let me know if you’ve found other ways to save on trips to Miami!

In North America, Resources, Take Notes on
April 27, 2019

A Cowboy Reading List

When doing any type of travel, having a history and cultural context about the place you’re visiting ahead of time enriches the experience. So I curated a list of 22 books to accompany any trips out in the American West. These books were selected because they provide diverse perspectives, a comprehensive overview, and an introduction to the uniquely American way of life. They cover all age groups and reading levels. Let me know what you think and if you have any reading suggestions that you think should be on this list.

FOUNDATIONAL READING

1. Black Cowboys of the Old West: True, Sensational, and Little-Known Stories from History by Tricia Martineau Wagner

Although black cowboys are often missing from the prevailing narrative, black men made up as much as 25 percent of cowboys of the Old West. The word cowboy conjures up vivid images of rugged men on saddled horses—men lassoing cattle, riding bulls, or brandishing guns in a shoot-out. White men, as Hollywood remembers them. What is woefully missing from these scenes is their counterparts: the black cowboys who made up one-fourth of the wranglers and rodeo riders. This book tells their story.

Front copy of the book, Black Cowboys of the Old West" which features a black and white photography of black cowboy Nat Love
If one out of every four cowboys of the Old West were Black, why aren’t they part of the cowboy narrative? This history book provides context to the history that is often overlooked.

2. African American Women of the Old West by Tricia Martineau Wagner

The brave pioneers who made a life on the frontier were not only male—and they were not only white. The story of African-American Women in the Old West is one that has largely gone untold until now. The author reconstructs the stories of ten African-American women from historical documents found in century-old archives. They were laundresses, freedom advocates, journalists, educators, midwives, business proprietors, religious converts, philanthropists, mail and freight haulers, and civil and social activists.

3. Black Cowboys in the American West: On the Range, on the Stage, behind the Badge by Bruce A. Glasrud

Professor Emeritus at California State University at East Bay, tells the story of black men and women of the old west. These cowboys include drivers, foremen, fiddlers, cowpunchers, cattle rustlers, cooks, singers, wranglers, riders, ropers, bulldoggers, and bronc busters. They came from varied backgrounds.

4. Empire of the Summer Moon: Quanah Parker and the Rise and Fall of the Comanches, the Most Powerful Indian Tribe in American History by Quanah Parker

A historical account of the forty-year battle between Comanche Indians and white settlers for control of the American West, centering on Quanah, the greatest Comanche chief of them all.

The last Comanche Chief.

5. Riders of the Purple Sage by Zane Grey

The fictional story of a Mormon girl growing up on her father’s ranch in Utah and breaking traditions.

ADDITIONAL READING

1. Lonesome Dove by Larry McCurty

A love story, an adventure, and an epic of the frontier, Larry McMurty’s Pulitzer Prize-winning classic, Lonesome Dove, the third book in the Lonesome Dove tetralogy, is the grandest novel ever written about the last defiant wilderness of America.

2. All the Pretty Horses by Cormac McCarthy

The national bestseller and the first volume in Cormac McCarthy’s Border Trilogy, All the Pretty Horses is the tale of John Grady Cole, who at sixteen finds himself at the end of a long line of Texas ranchers, cut off from the only life he has ever imagined for himself.  With two companions, he sets off for Mexico on a sometimes idyllic, sometimes comic journey to a place where dreams are paid for in blood.  Winner of the National Book Award for Fiction.

3. Lasso the Wind: Away to the New West by Timothy Egan

A New York Times Notable Book of the Year by a New York Times Bestselling novelist. “Lasso the Wind is like a good road trip across the West. You drive, you stop to camp, you fall in love, and then you decide to stay. Egan’s words are helping to settle the political chaos of this changing landscape. Alongside his sharp eye for details and clarity of mind is an ethical spine that is helping to shape the new West. I’m so glad he’s here.” –Terry Tempest Williams

A caravan of horses in Absarokee, MT.
Photo courtesy of Paintbrush Adventures in Absarokee, MT. Yes, the place really is this beautiful and one of my all time favorite American adventures.

4. Blood and Thunder: An Epic of the American West by Hampton Sides

Narbona could not have known that “The Army of the West,” during the longest march in American military history, was merely the vanguard of an inexorable tide fueled by a self-righteous ideology now known as “Manifest Destiny.” For twenty years the Navajo, elusive lords of a huge swath of mountainous desert and pasturelands, would ferociously resist the flood of soldiers and settlers who wished to change their old way of life or destroy them.

**This book pairs well with a trip to Lake Powell.  Be sure to book the Antelope Canyon Boat Tour.

5. The Gentle Tamers: Women of the Old Wild West by Dee Brown

ritten in 1958, the author’s condescending sexism, racism, and superficiality are nonchalantly reflected. The author rarely references primary source writings of women, but more commonly newspapers or the recollections of men. He spends considerable time documenting ondescending remarks about women’s clothing and the author can’t seem to write enough about prostitutes.  The title is misleading in that it excludes all women with the exception of white women. This book is included on this list as a contrast between the other diverse works and this perspective which is the most prevailing of cowboy life in the old west.

YOUNG ADULT & TEEN READING

1. Hattie Big Sky by Kirby Larson

A story of a sixteen-year-old homesteading in Montana.  This story won the 2007 Newbery Honor Book and 2007 Best Book for Young Adults.

2. The Devil’s Paintbox by Victoria McKernan

When orphans Aiden and Maddy Lynch first meet trail rider, Jefferson J. Jackson, in the spring of 1865, they’re struggling to survive on their family’s drought-ravaged Kansas farm. So when Jackson offers an escape – a 2000-mile journey across the roughest country in the world – Aiden knows it’s their only choice.

3. Ghost Medicine by Andrew Smith

Set in modern-day Montana, captures the essence of the west with wide open spaces from the perspective of a sixteen-year-old experiencing his last summer of childhood without his mother.  A 2009 Best Book for Young Adults.

4. Meet Kirsten: An American Girl series by Janet Beeler Shaw

This is a six book series of the triumphs and struggles of a nine-year-old Swedish immigrant to America who moves to the Minnesota territory in 1854 and starts her new life in America as a pioneer in the plains. It touches on historical topics like manifest destiny in addition to timeless lessons of American girlhood like friendships, family, and growing up.

CHILDREN’S BOOKS

1. Bill Pickett: Rodeo-Ridin’ Cowboy by Andrea Davis Pinkney

The true sweat-and-dirt tale of the feisty cowboy-child who became the most famous black rodeo performer who ever lived. The picture book includes a note about the history of the black West and a bibliography.  Supplement this reading by following it with a video of the real Bill Pickett in action from the 1922 silent film, The Bull Dogger.

The real, historical photograph taken of famouse black cowboy, Bill Pickett mounted on his horse.
Bill Pickett is the most well-known of Black American Cowboys. This children’s book tells some of his adventures.

2. Black Cowboys, Wild horses by Julius Lester

First published in 1973, this picture book tells the story of Bob Lemmons and his horse Warrior, and their uncanny ability to track wild horses.

3. Charro: The Mexican Cowboy by George Ancona

Charro is the Mexican term for “horseman.” However, a charro is much more than a cowboy. More than showing their horsemanship charros show off their pride for their country–because to be a charro is to be a Mexican.  Female charro competitions are called escaramuzas. You can start exploring their elegant yet fierce horsemanship on this Youtube video.

4. The Three Little Javelinas by Susan Lowell

The tale of the Southwestern cousins of the Three Little Pigs and their troubles with the Big Bad Coyote. It also comes in a Spanish version. You can observe it read out loud here on YouTube.

The cover of a children's book with an illustration of Three wild bigs from America's south West dressed up like cowgirls
The western, lady cousins of the Three Little Pigs have Big Bad Coyote troubles of their own.

5. Black Frontiers: A History of African American Heroes in the Old West by Lillian Schlissel

Black Frontiers chronicles the life and times of black men and women who settled the West from 1865 to the early 1900s. In this fascinating book, you’ll meet many of these brave individuals face-to-face, through rare vintage photographs and a fascinating account of their real-life history.  You can hear the book read out loud here on YouTube.

6. B is for Buckaroo by Gleaves Whitney

Although this rhyming alphabet book targets younger learners, it does provide useful vocabulary and detailed informational paragraphs on Western history. It’s versatile and informative across all age groups. Read along with the YouTube Video.

7. Pecos Bill

No study of the American cowboy is complete without being intimately familiar with the legendary epitome of cowboys, Pecos Bill. You’ll find no shortage of children’s picture books on this epic American Tall Tale hero. You can watch Walt Disney’s Merrie Melodies version on YouTube. Let his tall tale segue into a complete study of tall tales, an classically American storytelling art form.

8. Thunder Rose by Jerdine Nolen and Kadir Nelson

“Rose was the first child born free and easy to Jackson and Millicent MacGruder. I recall most vividly the night she came into this world. Hailing rain, flashing lightning, and booming thunder pounded the door, inviting themselves in for the blessed event.” Cowgirl Rose grows up to be a force to be reckened with.

The front cover of a the children's picture book, "Thunder Rose" which features a little black girl with long braids, a cowboyhat and cowboy attire with storm clouds forming behind her.
In American Tall Tale fashion, this children’s book tells the story of a little cowgirl named Rose, who is a force of nature.



In addition to travel, consider pairing this study of the American West with culinary exploration and movies. Don’t forget to let me know if you have any other book suggestions in the comments!

Happy Reading!

In Arizona, Destinations, France, United States on
April 25, 2019

Travel is the Vehicle that Connects Past, Present, and Future

Black Arizona landforms against a vibrant, flaming sunset

A 5 minute read

While road tripping in 2016 to complete my “All 50 States” tour, I pulled over along a desolate highway. The sunset views against Arizona’s Painted Desert deserved so much more than a passing glance as I drove through. I got out of my car and stood amidst absolute, complete silence and watched nature take place.

I’d never seen anything like it. Iridescence cascaded into/like an overture/coloratura across the sky.  The sun painted murals on rock formations. Fallen, petrified trees from the late Triassic period, 225 million years ago interspersed throughout the barren landscapes soon gave way to majestic silhouettes accented by stars that seemed close enough to pull right out of the sky.

There I stood, somewhere between, “the bright blessed day and dark sacred night” that inspired Armstrong’s crooning and led him to rejoice, “What a wonderful world.” Wonderful world, indeed.

Engulfed in awe of the creator’s innovation, my heart overflowed with gratitude that the composer saw fit to share this masterpiece with me.
At the moment, an elucidation that captured this experience from Forest Gump, long buried in the depths of my mind, rose to the surface, “In the desert, when the sun comes up, I couldn’t tell where heaven stopped, and Earth began. It was so beautiful.” At this moment, I too struggled to distinguish Heaven from Earth. For the first time, I understood.

Surrounded by both vast nothingness and the density of significance at once, all of the people I love came to mind. I wanted them to have a moment like this. I wished they could witness this. I craved for them to feel all of this.  

desert sunrise with beautiful artistic hues of pinks, purples, and blues.
                       I want you to know how these colors feel.

I view the world through a historical lens. Whereas an engineer may look at something and ask how it works, I look for clues left by previous generations to learn the story of why and document to provide clues for the next.  I travel in order to cover as much ground as possible to increase the probability that I trace the steps of my progenitors but also, lay a path for descendants.  I try to have many unique experiences so when others experience the same, it bridges a gap of understanding in a way that it couldn’t by being explained.

For example, I grew up in a military family. Saturday mornings often started with a G.I. Party (the military community knows, this is not an exciting event) and getting ready for school came with the expectation that it only takes three minutes to do the  Three S’s. After 22 years of growing up in that environment, it wasn’t until I experienced military training for myself that I learned it is indeed possible to get ready in three minutes (which is 90 seconds more than what’s actually needed).  That experience helps me relate to every American warfighter that has come before me in a way I couldn’t before.  Visiting Charleston, I was filled with an enormous sense of family connection. Although I don’t know for sure, the statistics make it highly probable that someone from my family’s past walked the same streets centuries before. Even after reading Little Women multiple times and watching both versions of the movie, it wasn’t until visiting the March family home, Orchard House, in Concord, Mass that I felt that I really got to know the family.  Tracing the steps of James Baldwin, Richard Wright, and Lois Mailou Jones in Paris’ Latin Quarter helps to understand their muses and inspires creativity of one’s own. The same goes for visiting the homes and frequented localities of all historical figures. It gives a snapshot of the surroundings of the historical figure, how they lived, and what influenced their thoughts. It helps to understand how they worked through some of their decisions and thought processes. I know, from visiting the Kennedy Library and Museum that Jacqueline took a cruise to Paris with friends while in college and it was the best year of her life. But I don’t know any such information about anyone in my family.

I’d like to able to know and connect with my family in the same way, but so much of my family’s history went undocumented. I do have some say over the documentation prepared for the future of my family to be able to know and connect in the same way that I do historical figures.

So I travel. I do things. I search out a diversity of experiences, not only so I can find some commonality with people I come in contact with today, and so I can relate to people of yesteryear, but also for those who come next will be able to identify with me in some way.

Regardless of France’s past and current transgressions as colonizers, and irrespective of the more impactful uses of contribution money, Notre Dame’s burning is a loss.  The losses of St Mary Baptist, Greater Union Baptist, and Mount Pleasant Baptist in Louisiana and the several mosques also burning at the same time does not detract from the loss of this Catholic Church in France. It is a loss of history — literary history, architectural history, religious history, cultural history, and personal history. And it is a loss of a future. Three generations of women in my family explored this site together during a wonderful summer trip, and now, our future generations will not see it as we saw it.

The backs of a small crowd watch Notre Dame durn from afar on a hill.
I can only imagine what it would be like: To be going about my day, look up, and see the smoke, then realize it’s Notre Dame burning.

In the wake of the devasting fire to Paris’ Notre Dame Cathedral, social media users flooded their timelines with the nostalgia of Paris vacations.  Criticisms grew that this act was merely bragging.  When we grieve the loss of a pet, it is common to remember by showing pictures of the memories with them. When we mourn the loss of a loved one, we do the same thing. When a home full of warm memories is lost, we often use pictures to help us remember those memories and grieve. And in the most heartbreaking occasions, when a dream is lost, one of the ways we grieve is by looking at pictures of that dream.  Have we gotten so cynical and disconnected from humanity that we confuse the human emotion of grief for bragging? And really, isn’t that the central focus on social media? A platform to draw attention to yourself?

The places we travel become the setting for the story of our lives.  Perhaps, my progeny won’t give their ancestors a second thought, but at least if they do, the more places I travel, the easier it will become for those who come after me to visit and find a connection if they so wished. When they find themselves randomly out in the middle of the desert, witnessing all its glory, and they’re longing for someone to share it with, they’ll know they had an adventurous ancestor who sent everywhere and saw everything and likely witnessed it and felt the same way too.  Perhaps, if the Earth is still around, four generations from now,  my offspring will visit France’s capital. Perhaps they’ll respond just like me and marvel at finally witnessing the architecture discussed in classes first hand. Perhaps they’ll be like some of my travel companions and be underwhelmed.  Perhaps, if it is rebuilt, they’ll climb the tower. Perhaps if restored properly, they won’t have to climb the steps and take the elevator instead. Maybe my future offspring will see the cathedral for the first time with friends. Perhaps they’ll make their mark on eternity and get engaged right next to the Charlemagne statute, under the shade of the trees.  At the very least, perhaps those scions will at least have the primary source document that shows four generations of women in their family have gone to Paris, strolled the narrow alleyways, delighted in the cuisine, and had their picture taken in front of La Cathédrale Notre-Dame de Paris.

In Kentucky, Uncategorized on
March 30, 2019

Kentucky is Southern, Through and Through

One surefire way to pick a fight with a Kentuckian is to try to explain that she is somehow less southern than the rest of The South. Kentuckians are some of the most conscientiously southern folks you’ll ever meet. We are passionately southern. Anyone trying to classify a Kentuckian as anything other than southern is simply lacking good judgment. So, I’m going to speak my piece and be done with the topic.

A wall of bourbon barrels lids on display on a grey brick wall at a shop in the Louisville, Kentucky Airport.
Kentucky supplies 95% of the world’s bourbon supply. If it’s not Kentucky, it’s not bourbon.

A Matter Of Geography

The first argument folks will try to use against Kentucky is geography. One’s location relative to the Mason-Dixon is the single qualification required for the geography of The South. The entire commonwealth of Kentucky falls south of the Mason-Dixon Line. But just in case that wasn’t evidence enough, geographically, Kentucky extends further south than some towns in Tennessee (i.e., Fulton, Kentucky is more geographically southern than Clarksville, Tennessee). Kentucky extends further south than Virginia.

In all the time I’ve spent as a southerner in New England, I have yet to see any streets named Dixie north of the Mason-Dixon. Dixie derives from the French word for ten as French Franks were being used as currency in the south. This photo was taken in Elizabethtown, Kentucky.

If Kentucky isn’t southern what else could it be? It sure isn’t geographically north. Some may offer the Midwest as an acceptable region but what is Kentucky west of other than Virginia and the Atlantic Ocean? Kentucky is one state removed from the nation’s Eastern border. You can’t get more east than Kentucky unless you’re Virginia…or West Virginia. You’d be hard-pressed convincing anyone that Mississippi, Tennessee, Arkansas, Texas, Louisiana aren’t southern states yet they’re all more west of the Bluegrass. Kentucky clearly isn’t West enough to be considered West in any form.
Florida is geographically southern, but we all know, the further south you travel in Florida, the less Southern you get. The majority of Floridians do not consider themselves southern and southern folks don’t accept most of them as southern. Southerners will ask from what part of Florida a person is from to really get a feel of how southern they are.

One of my favorite Kentucky signs of welcome. Courtesy of the happy people of Ohio County.

Kentucky is Southern In Culture

At any rate, any southerner worth the butter in their grits will tell you that Southern-ness encompasses more than residing in a particular geographic region. Southern is culture. Southern is a state of mind.

Culture includes all the features of everyday existence; culture consists of beliefs, rituals, behavior, religion, food, arts, attitudes, language, and customs. When it comes to Southern Culture, Kentucky values remain consistent with the south’s.

Photo from the KFC in the Louisville Airport.

Kentucky food, with our preference toward all things fried or barbecued, is super southern. Our tea, sweeter than the belles who make it, is undeniably southern. The way we talk, with both a slow drawl and an Appalachian twang and the euphemisms we use, can be found only south of the Mason Dixon. Our rituals and customs can be observed every Saturday in the fall. You’ll find Kentucky belles in sundresses at tailgates, and we tailgate for everything from football to horse races. Debutant balls and cotillions are not foreign to Kentuckians in this day in age. Dang near all of us Kentucky belles have a tiara, sash, and some type of title stashed away from our youth. All of this pomp and circumstance is predicated on the value of marrying well and starting a southern family. The way Kentucky approaches every phase of life, from birth to death is quintessentially southern in practice. I’ve traveled to every state in the union. Therefore, I’m well aware that the South, including Kentucky, seems to be the only region where strangers pay their respects to the bereaved by pulling over on the side of the road. Kentucky is a red state like the rest of the south showing exactly where its political values stand.

A Common History

A center point of southern culture is its adherence to tradition and history. Regardless if it makes you proud or ashamed, history is the immutable tie that binds Kentucky to the rest of the south.

Old fashioned row of shop and restauraunts in a small town Kentucky downtown
The charming downtown of my hometown.

Kentucky has been southern since 1792. As the first southern state admitted after the independence of America, Kentucky has been southern long before the Louisiana Purchase welcomed eight out of 13 southern states.

In addition to its longevity, both the president of the Confederate States and the United States during the civil war came from Kentucky…born 100 miles or so apart. A state’s relationship with the south during the time of the Civil War is really the determining factor of its legitimacy within the region. Kentucky straddled the fence during the War Between The States— wanting to remain one nation but maintain the institution of slavery too. After emancipation, Kentucky took on a more fervently southern identity. It clings to the “Just Cause” propaganda that is still taught in Kentucky Schools. Kentucky erected so many confederate statues it would be a wonder if any Kentuckian has ever seen a Union monument. It’s not uncommon for Kentucky folks to be able to look in their backyards and around their neighborhoods and be in a Civil War battleground or confederate grave yard. Now, what Northerner or Midwesterner can say the same?

My Old Kentucky Home: The Musical performed every summer in Bardstown, Kentucky.
Reenacting the antebellum period is a Southern Pastime.

Kentucky has Southern Street Cred (We’re Backwoods Legit)

Besides, the SEC college sports conference and Southern Living Magazine recognizes Kentucky as southern. I’d say that’s confirmation enough. So with geography, history, and culture firmly planted in the south, there’s just no use in trying to dissociate Kentucky from its Southernness.

Every southern state boasts its own unique personality. Louisiana showcases its French and Creole heritage. The low country of South Carolina intertwines hospitality into its fabric. Cattle ranching culture plays a significant role in Texas’ notable style. We’ve got mountain states, cotton states, and sugar cane state(s) all of which provide a distinction from rest of the southern states. Like members of a family, each individual has a unique identity, but their kinship binds them all together. Kentuckians hold a kinship to other southerners that they don’t have with any other region of the US. Maybe it’s the accent. Perhaps it’s the menus we are nourished by or the behaviors we instill in our offspring regardless of where we raise them. I believe our way of living, colloquialisms, and fundamental reputation make Kentucky, without a doubt, southern through and through. Upper south or mid-south, yes, but entirely south nevertheless. And if you refuse to believe that well, bless your sweet little heart, you can just kiss my Kentucky bluegrass!

The farm of my childhood friend’s parents in Yellow Creek, Kentucky.
In GloBelle Kitchen, Kentucky on
March 15, 2019

CLASSIC KENTUCKY HOT BROWN

Close up of cheesy goodness, open face turkey, cheese, tomato, and bacon sandwich

During winters in New England when the cabin fever sets in, it’s easy to fall into a state of nostalgia for my far away former Kentucky home. Some guides encourage reaching for a host of remedies to cure the homesickness disease. Photo albums, making phone calls, or working out are just a few suggestions. I find, when I’m missing Kentucky, nothing fights homesickness better than good ol’ comfort food seasoned with warm memories.
That said, here’s a recipe that is sure to word off any homesickness Kentuckians living away from home may be feeling this winter, the classic Kentucky Hot Brown.

During winters in New England when the cabin fever sets in, it’s easy to fall into a state of nostalgia. Some guides encourage reaching for host of remedies to cure the homesickness affliction. I find, when I’m missing Kentucky, nothing fights homesickness better than good ol’ comfort food seasoned with warm memories.  Here in Boston, southerners have to make their own comfort foods because stores around here do not sell southern staples like sweet tea and sweet potato pie pre-made.

CLASSIC HOT BROWN INGREDIENTS
Makes Two Hot Browns

• 2 sticks (one cup) Butter
• ¼ cup (2 oz.) All-Purpose Flour
• 1 cup (8 oz.) Heavy Cream
• ½ Cup of Pecorino Romano Cheese
• Bourbon (enough or none at all) *
• ¼ pound thick sliced roasted turkey breast
• French bread/baguette
• 4 Slices of crispy smoked pepper bacon
• 2 Roma tomatoes
• Paprika
• Parsley
• Salt and Pepper

PREP

Select a thick, flavorful cut of turkey from your butcher or local deli. I chose pepper-maple turkey. And since it’s just me, a ¼ pound slice was perfect. Soak the turkey in enough* bourbon to cover overnight (or three hours or more). 

Select a quality, think chunk of turkey from your local deli.

For the Sauce

While making the sauce, bake the turkey in the bourbon at 300 degrees.

In a saucepan, melt butter over medium heat and slowly whisk in flour until combined and forms a thick paste (roux). Continue to cook the roux, stirring frequently. Then add heavy cream into the roux and whisk until the cream begins to simmer (about 2‑3 minutes). Slowly whisk in Pecorino Romano Cheese until the sauce is smooth. Keep warm and add salt and pepper to taste.

Assembling the Sandwich

Slice the French bread in half and into sandwich sized slices. These will make two open-faced sandwiches.

Next, lightly toast the top of the French bread. I broiled it in a cast iron dish for this. You can also use Pyrex or a backing dish in a toaster oven.

After that, layer the toast with your warm bourbon baked turkey.

Then, pour the cheese sauce completely over the sandwich.

Next, top with tomatoes (where the tomatoes go in the equation is debatable. Some like it under the cheese, I like it on top so it boils).

Almost finished. Just broil this before adding the toppers.

Sprinkle with additional Pecorino Romano cheese.

Place the entire dish under a broiler until cheese begins to brown and bubble.

While it broils, fry your bacon.

Remove the dish from broiler, cross two pieces of crispy bacon on top.

Garnish with paprika, parsley, or cheese and serve immediately while hot.

Now, sit back in your reading chair with your bubbling Kentucky sandwich, a copper cup of bourbon apple cider, recall the history of the Hot Brown and dial (855) 883-8663 to hear our state song sang by the former governor, Happy Chandler.

Tale in all of this cheesy, turkey, bacon, and tomato goodness while you remember home.

Disclaimers:

Yes, I also recognize dang near all of my recipes call for bourbon which can be habit-forming for some. It’s a non-essential ingredient in most recipes. Just take it out if you need to. 

*Take a peep here to understand my views on being precise with measurements in recipes and why I intentionally don’t do it.

I’m also aware of Happy Chandler’s problematic statements and views. Someone with a beautiful singing voice should record the song to give us more listening options.

In Resources, Uncategorized, United States on
February 16, 2019

A Seat In The Cockpit: Revealing A Hidden Legacy

A middle school aged boy in cargo shorts and button up shirt walks with an experienced pilot discussing aviation and acedemic excellence on a flight line, as a crew memher gives a peace sign outside the parked airplane behind them.

One of the most magnetic people I know established my new favorite non-profit aimed at exposing a wider range of children to the thrills of aviation.  Legacy Flight Academy accomplishes this goal at one-day, Eyes Above the Horizon events that take place in various cities around the county.  Students interact with diverse pilots who instill the legacy of the Tuskegee Airmen and share tales of their flying adventures.  The highlight of the day is an introductory flight in the cockpit of a single-engine plane.  All of this is provided free of charge to anyone who takes advantage of the opportunity.  I’d heard so much about this award-winning organization that I had to get involved. So I boarded a plane to fly to Houston to volunteer.

Legacy Flight Academy: Eyes Above The Horizon

Early on a Saturday morning children start filtering through the Lone Star Flight Museum. I’m charged with leading a group of 20 or so 5th and 6th graders to their stations. The day is divided into four parts: introductory flight, Tuskegee Airmen legacy lesson, museum scavenger hunt, and hands-on simulation. Inquisitive, little minds absorb all the information and start making connections with context they’ve been provided.   When they ascend into the sky, a transformation takes place.  Packed full of new experiences, their little bodies come back down to Earth, but their perspective never does. I have the privilege of watching it all take place from a front row view.

All smiles while 5th grade children take turns checking out a fighter jet as they wait for their introductory flight.
All smiles while 5th-grade children take turns checking out a fighter jet as they wait for their introductory flight.

While shepherding the children through the galleries on a scavenger hunt, something becomes apparent for the first time. Of all the exhibits on aviation, Bessie Colman was the only black female aviator featured…in the entire, huge museum! Granted it’s a Texas-heritage aviation museum and Ms. Colman was a native Texan, surrounded by all the aviation history gives the appearance that Bessie Coleman was one of a kind. She wasn’t.  The stories of Mildred Hammons Carter, Willa Brown, and Janet Bragg are equally fascinating, especially for their time.  They taught countless other black men and women to fly.  Even with my background in history, spending my life in the Air Force, and teaching Air Force History, I had not been fully cognizant of the dearth of aviators that look like me until this moment.

Precocious children stay engaged with a Legacy Lesson of the Tuskegee Airman from a volunteer who was personally friends with a recently passed original Airman.  They asked so many thoughtful questions and offered their own insights.
Precocious children stay engaged with a Legacy Lesson of the Tuskegee Airman from a volunteer who was personally friends with a recently passed original Airman. They asked so many thoughtful questions and offered their own insights.

We laud the Tuskegee Airmen as the nation’s first military unit for African-American pilots. However, it wasn’t for all African-American pilots; just the male ones. Words matter, and so do the omission of words. When we leave out the word “male,” although perhaps implied, it glosses over the lack of opportunity for black women. Not explicitly stating the U.S. Army’s Tuskegee Flight School Experiment solely selected black men alters the context from a sense of inclusion for all black people to the reality of the exclusion of over half the black population.

While it is also essential to recognize that the U.S. military barred women in general from combat, and thus fighter pilot slots, during World War II, it’s also crucial to make abundantly clear, that black, female pilots, although qualified for non-combat flights, faced both gender and racial discrimination.  Even today, unless you specifically hunt for the contributions of black, female aviators, you won’t find them mentioned in movies or websites including Tuskegee University’s own. Even the supporting contributions women provided, to include training the Tuskegee Airmen to fly, are omitted.  

A vintage photo of Mildred pinning wings on her beau, Herb. Herb and Mildred Carter's 70-year, epic romance in the sky is one for the history books.  They weren't allowed to date while training at Tuskegee so they'd meet up in the sky above Lake Martin and blow kisses at each other from their planes. Mildred was the first black woman in Alabama to fly and first civilian hired by the Army Air Corp. She was retroactively designated a WASP 70 years after applying.  As far as my research takes me, she is the only person who is designated as both a WASP and Tuskegee Airman.
Herb and Mildred Carter’s 70-year, epic romance in the sky is one for the history books. They weren’t allowed to date while training at Tuskegee so they’d meet up in the sky above Lake Martin and blow kisses at each other from their planes. Mildred was the first black woman in Alabama to fly and first civilian hired by the Army Air Corp. She was retroactively designated a WASP 70 years after applying. As far as my research takes me, she is the only person who is designated as both a WASP and Tuskegee Airman.

The same is true for the Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps (WAAC) and Women Airforce Service Pilots (WASP). It wasn’t an inclusive program for all women. It specifically disqualified black women. So it wasn’t a Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps. It more accurately should be called the “White Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps” with a few waivers for non-black Women of Color.

I’d always identified with both groups of ground-breaking pioneers, only to realize that I wouldn’t have been welcomed in either.  We are still witnessing the early years of black female aviation. The first black woman to fly in combat was in 2001! That’s 60 years after the Tuskegee Airmen and WASP! Recognizing neither group would have had a place for me to fly was depleting as well as telling. 

After 8 hours of flight immersion, Legacy Flight Academy participants and staff gather for a group picture
After 8 hours of flight immersion, Legacy Flight Academy participants gather for a group picture.

After the all-day event wrapped up, a pilot for United Airlines invited the Legacy Flight Academy volunteers to crash at her sprawling secondary home. Fewer than 150 African-American women hold a pilot’s license (airline, commercial, military or instructor); she’s one of them. She’s also a founding member of Sisters of the Skies, a non-profit organization founded in 2015.   This organization doesn’t just accept black women as members, Sisters of the Skies is dedicated to increasing the number of black female aviators.  The friend who invited me to volunteer, a military flight instructor, took the lead in conducting a debrief and After Action Report to gain consensus on what went right and what could be done better next time.

Sisters of the Sky, an organization dedicated to increasing black female aviators to the ranks, muster at the Lone Star Flight Museum.
Sisters of the Sky muster at the Lone Star Flight Museum.

Legacy Flight Wrap Up

Someone once told me, “It’s either first class or no class.” Eyes Above the Horizon is first class all the way.  I’m still impressed that people that I call friends could dream this experience and turn it into an extraordinary reality. From the expansive museum and its knowledgeable staff, the pilots who volunteered their aircraft, fuel, and time, to the leaders who organized the event, everything was fantastic.  This community undertaking drew in over 100 Houston-area kids. Since this was my first experience with the Legacy Flight I only had praise to offer.

A Tuskegee Airmen and elementary age child, both dressed in red pose for a picture. Five generations apart these two share a joy of aviation.
One of the perks of the academy is the opportunity to interact with living legends. Five generations apart these two share a joy of aviation.

It’s About Belonging

With all the children gone, the volunteers and staff gathered at a local pilot’s home. Chillin’ around a kitchen, eating pizza and wings, laughing, joking, and contributing to the lighthearted revelry, we conducted a business meeting. I was in awe of the moment.  There I was, surrounded by black excellence. It’s a situation that rarely happens for me, yet everything about it was familiar. Surrounded by people that I just met earlier that day, I felt at home.  I knew it would be a long while before this happened again, so I intentionally captured the moment in my mind. 

For instance, I’d estimate there are fewer than 10 black officers on my Air Force base. Without intentional efforts, I can go months without contact with peers from a similar cultural background.  aired with my history of perpetually being “the only one,” camaraderie with black peers has been an infrequent indulgence my whole life.  Even more infrequent as an Air Force officer is the opportunity to observe other black officers lead and the access to socialize with aviators, let alone black aviators. 

a crew of modern day black air force aviators
Black aviators have just as much swag today as they did in 1944 (and slightly more women).

Around 10 flyers or so floated around the house. In addition to my flight instructor buddy, there’s one of his flight students, a bright, young woman who divided her attention between her studies and the lively conversation.  Another aviator present, a fighter pilot who earned his flying license before his driver’s license shared a video of his first flight solo as a child. A Surveillance and Reconnaissance pilot recalled highlights of the day which included the children asking if he can see outer space from his aircraft…he can!  The question and answer session took an awkward turn when the kiddos got very officious about his bathroom habits while wearing a spacesuit. He’d just recently bought his own plane for recreational flying.

A commercial airline pilot, who also flies for the Air Force reserves lamented his economical travel arrangements of riding shotgun to Texas, sitting on the uncomfortable hump (also known as the jump seat) between two the two pilots flying the plane. Navigators, air battle managers, and a few others with careers in aviation talked and joked with the group. And then there was me. As the furthest removed from aviation, I was a guest within the group but very much deeply embraced. We all just exchanged ideas, vibed, and enjoyed one another’s company. It was a pleasure.

A U2, high-altitude reconnaissance aircraft, pilot dresses a student in his space suit. Legacy Flight Academy class.
A U2, high-altitude reconnaissance aircraft, pilot dresses a student in his space suit. The U2, also called the Dragon Lady, first flew in 1955 and is a spy aircraft which can loiter in the air taking aerial pictures of an area of operation. Pilots must use liquid oxygen and a spacesuit in high altitudes.

I recalled a former, non-black Naval Aviator who once said Top Gun was what inspired him to fly.  Nothing about Top Gun appealed to me. When I watch Top Gun, I see an environment where I’m likely to get touched without my consent. In that situation, I can predict that I’ll have perspectives and ideas to share, but the group will dismiss them. Talked over and interrupted will be standard behavior.

Additionally, I can expect to be misunderstood and mischaracterized. I will have to tolerate racist micro-aggressions and get accustomed to both casual and overt sexism for the sake of being tolerated at all. I’ll be spoken to condescendingly or harshly if at all. They’ll go play volleyball on the beach, and I won’t even be invited (notice, the volleyball scene did not include the only black guy in the Top Gun flight class; that’s remarkably accurate). If included by the group at all, there will be a sense that I am involved out of obligation.  They’ll find singing “That Loving Feeling” amusing. I won’t. But I’ll have to pretend I do to avoid being the stick-in-the-mud. In other words, I can always expect to be ever so slightly out of place. Much like watching Top Gun from the screen, even if I were present in the group, I’d still most likely be on the outside looking in and kept at arm’s length. 
Legacy Flight Academy is a community event. Local Aviators dedicate their time, resources and skills to the cause.
Inspiring future generations is a whole community effort. About six Houston-Area pilots spent their Saturday volunteering to flying 100 students around. A local chain restaurant catered lunch at no cost. Local teachers rallied promising future aviators to the event.

Stanford University researchers Robin Ely and Debra Meyerson published a study that indicates that the male culture prevents women from excelling in corporate America. Other studies suggest that it is specifically White Male Culture that detours those who are not white and male from participation or struggling when they do.  I’d surmise that’s a major reason minorities and women avoid careers in aviation.  In other words, it’s not necessarily a lack of exposure, interest, or ability; it’s the culture.

Another study states, “Like fish in water, many white men never have to leave their culture from birth to boardroom. Often they are unaware they have a culture that others must negotiate.” Perhaps people outside of this culture are like aquatic frogs. We can swim with the fish from time to time but eventually, need to come up for air. Until hanging out with these guys, I never knew there was air for a temporary reprieve.

Among this group, I don’t stand out. There is no foreign culture to navigate. 
My dual consciousness isn’t employed. I don’t have to walk on eggshells to avoid my entire race being stereotyped by any action that I do that’s perceived as negative. I don’t need to regulate myself into perfection in order to debunk stereotypes. Any positive attributes aren’t seen as exceptional for my race because being exceptionally brilliant and talented is expected. I’m not tone-policed. I’m not a novelty, token, or commodity. Around these folks, my voice is heard and appreciated.  Here, no topics are avoided. For example, we discussed the merits of attending Cornell versus Hampton for undergrad which largely centered on race, inclusion, and acceptance.  One of the volunteers, the only Caucasian aviator in the group, quietly listened. No one felt compelled to code switch to accommodate his comfort.  We were all free to be our authentic selves.

Legacy Flight Academy Students inspect a plane inside a museum to answer questions on a pre-flight checklist. Young black aviators.
Students answer questions on a pre-flight checklist.

After Party Socialization

After stuffing our faces and concluding the meeting, we suited up for esprit de corps in the Houston nightlife. I did not stand out in the bar. It’s a rare occasion that going out with colleagues doesn’t include Journey, Bohemian Rhapsody, Copperhead Road, or Sweet Caroline. Although I’ve certainly had a blast belting out the words to Don’t Stop Believing and doing the Copperhead Road line dance, that music usually doesn’t make the cut to my celebration playlist.  It’s just as foreign to me as shouting, “tickie tockie tickie tockie” under an Octoberfest tent in Munich. Fun. But Foreign.

Lasting Effects of Legacy Flight Academy

After that weekend I did some research.  That research led me to the ground school at my local aero club the following Wednesday.  Not long after that, I took my first flight lesson with me in control of the throttle. I Flew A Daggum Airplane! I finally understood the hype my aviator friends had been talking about. That night my dreams were about flying.  This is the impact of representation. Having access to a flying community whom I could identify and where I belonged with was all it took to convince me to consider aviation after decades of being aviation adjacent.

In short, it’s not enough to sell aviation as a cool thing to do. That doesn’t make flying any different from all the other cool stuff active, ambitious people do every day. People want to belong.  Deep down, everyone wants to be part of something wonderful; that’s the very reason I traveled to Houston in the first place. The camaraderie within an elite network is what makes this profession or hobby unique. Knowing there’s a tight-knit community of people like me and has always been a community like me, is the most significant selling point in encouraging diversity in aviation. Being part of the flying world touches on the top three of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.  Who knew, I traveled to Houston to volunteer to plant seeds of aviation excellence in the impressionable minds of children not knowing Legacy Flight Academy would sow those seeds in me as well.

A dimpled, red-headed, black female teenage, licensed pilot and alum of Legacy Flight Academy shows younger children the sky is not the limit when it's her point of view.
A teenage, licensed pilot and alum of Legacy Flight Academy shows younger children the sky is not the limit when it’s her point of view.

***If you’d like to be part of something great by supporting the early exposure to the thrill of aviation to a wide range of children, you can donate here or inquire about volunteer opportunities. To learn how you can bring Eyes Above The Horizon to your hometown check out the Legacyflightacademy.org website. You can also list Legacy Flight Academy as your Amazon Smile non-profit.  Or donate as a birthday gift to me on my Facebook link or LFA’s.

Amazon Smile advertisement for Legacy Flight. Features children sitting in Jump seats in the back of a cargo aircraft.
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February 4, 2019

Make Charleston Your Black History Month Destination

Charneice stands between two iron gates and a stately home, smartly dressed, welcoming visitors.

Come feel the omnipresent spirit of African Ancestors in Charleston.

When I planned my weekend getaway to Charleston, I fully intended on basking in all the southern-ness I’d been yearning for while living in Boston. I’d chat with gracious southerners with incomparable etiquette. I’d dine on delectable southern cuisine.  Most of all, I intended on giving my ears a break from the harshness of the Bostonian accent to capture the sweetest of twang.  Charleston is, after all, the crown jewel of the south. Its timeless allure is immortalized in American folklore and literature. It is where you go when you need a super does of southern charm.  Although I went to Charleston for its southern-ness, I never expected that I’d be surrounded by its African-ness as well. All-the-while the city is touted as the epicenter of quintessential southern gentry, I’ve rarely heard it positioned as a starting point of Africans in American. Yet, when I visited, I was constantly surrounded by the works and stories that drew a bridge to my own past.

This history and culture of Charleston is the history of the African majority who built and developed the city from the colonial era onward.  It is impossible to separate the history of Charleston from the history of the Africans that populated the city for over 300 years. You don’t have to go looking for the history of Black Americans in South Carolina — it hits you right in the face. The African people of Charleston are not an aside to the city, or a footnote. Charleston was not influenced by Africans, but built by Africans in every way. They were and still are the heart of the city.  

All this southern charm captured by Lindsay Pennell @taylor.grace.photography

My first stop of the weekend was Fort Sumter. Etched into memory from history class, it’s always been on my list of places to see. Being the hyper planner that I am, I arrived as their first customer of the morning. I purchased my ticket for the ferry across the bay but it didn’t leave until another two hours at 11.   That gave me time to check out the Old Slave Mart Museum.

While touring the Old Slave Mart, or Ryan’s Mart as it was called in the days of slavery, I learned an estimated 80 percent of African Americans today had at least one ancestor who was kidnapped from the Senegambia region then quarantined at Sullivan Island, often for over a month, before being brought into the city.  While I can’t know for sure, it is reasonable to believe, that I have some ancestor, from some branch of the family tree that came through this seaport. Considering that probability, the city became more personalized. This wasn’t just a trendy southern city. I was no longer just a history tourist on the outside looking in at a foreign history.  This city provides clues to my family’s potential first steps in America.    

Old slave mart museum - stone building with the words "Mart" inscribed. Three arched doorways on the first floor show symetry to the same archways over doors on the second floor.
The museum is reading intensive and emotional. It’s not recommended for children…especially rambunctious ones.

Initially, Charleston didn’t have a designated spot for the sale of Africans. It was customary for Europeans to buy and sell African people randomly on sidewalks all over town. These spontaneous sales drew inconvenient crowds for pedestrians and carts trying to make their way around town. Ryan’s Mart was built in 1856 to alleviate the sidewalk congestion. Now, Charleston had undergone series of legislation banning the public sale of humans in 1839 as a way of being discrete. That law was overturned a decade later by anti-abolitionists as a way of doubling down on their shamelessness of the institution.  

Looking at the cobble stone roads, I wondered if any of my family members, or people who knew my family were creepily inspected on the side of the roads to be bought and sold like a used futon prior to the mart’s construction.  Or perhaps someone who cross paths with my ancestors survived time spent in the barracoon of the slave mart.  Could all the trauma and heartbreak contained in this concrete cell be part of my family’s initial experience in this country?  Through these walls, mamas, most certainly clinging to their little girls knowing the fate of adolescent girls being considered the property of ruthless men.  Young sweethearts, crazy in love, waited for the impeding separation, never to see each other again. Mothers never knew what became of their toddlers and children never knew if they had other brothers and sisters out there.  

According to displays in the museum, Ryan’s Mart was advertised in newspapers across the south. Even enslavers in Mobile, AL would know when an auction was scheduled and pay a dealer to purchase and deliver people who were enslaved. Those people would be marched in shackles from Charleston to Mobile while the white deliverer would ride alongside of them.  If you could imagine…that’s a 9-hour drive on the highway today but walking back then would take weeks. This job illustrates that even individuals that might not have “owned” African people as property, their livelihood still depended on the propagation of the slave industry. Being in the Old Slave Mart connected dots on possible stories of my family’s history. My family has lived an hour’s drive north of Mobile since the end of the Civil War. While Mobile Bay was a significant slave port, most of those enslaved African people had been brought over after being “seasoned” for slave life in the Caribbean.  I pondered if my people were part of that crew or the Charleston set? Or both?

   After an hour and a half, the museum stimulated my curiosity and provided more data to use for research. I dashed back to my rental parked in two-hour parking right outside the museum then headed back to Fort Sumter National Monument.

The National Parks Department curated a small but impactful museum in the ferry waiting area that doesn’t gloss over some of the less touted realities of antebellum life that history books often omit. Founded in 1663, Charleston became predominantly black by the first decade of the 1700s.  By 1770, the Charleston harbor was the nation’s fourth largest port after Boston, New York, and Philadelphia.  At the end of the century, Charleston distinguished itself as the wealthiest city in British North America (including the Caribbean). All of its wealth was made possible by its slave industry. Of America’s major cities, Charleston was the only one with a history of having the majority of its residents enslaved.  In fact, the majority of all South Carolina residents were enslaved. The irony… South Carolina, a state in America — the bastion of freedom, enslaved most of its residents. The city stayed predominately African until the great migration during the industrial revolution of the early 20th century.

Charneice stands on the fort's island in front of "Fort Sumter National Monument" welcome sign. Grass and the bay is in the background.
The Fort is free but the 30-minute ferry ride is a small fee. You’re welcome to visit on your own boat if you’d like. Keep your eyes out for dolphins!

Once out on the island fort, the park ranger gave a spill on the history of Ft Sumter. He was a high energy, charismatic, retired Marine Colonel who implored the visitors to use our imaginations to put ourselves in the shoes of the people of Charleston at the start of the Civil War.  Empathy, he contended, was vital to the study of history and human understanding. Just like current events of today, that time period had so many perspectives to consider.  With that in mind, I considered what I’d be thinking if I was a young, enlisted soldier doing my daily duties while gearing up for the impending battle. I measured my priorities if I was the commander of the fort, knowing supplies were low and the confederates were getting hostile. I imagined being one of the aristocrats watching the battle from the porch of my ocean-side home. But what I pondered most was the perspective I’d have if I were one of the enslaved people who laid the bricks to build the fortress. I wondered if the hands of one of my ancestors built the bricks that now surrounded me. I ran my hands across as many as I could just in case.

Back shot of a 19th century cannon looking out porthole.
Use from the Ft Sumter National Monument website.

The prevailing viewpoint is the realization that all the grandeur of the city of Charleston depended on the wealth made possible by forced, African labor. With the federal government placing bans on the peculiar institution, the source of income of southerners would be gone (…with the wind).  That meant no more fashionable gowns imported from Europe. No more life of leisure, porch sitting. Cultural developments such as America’s first theater building, Dock Street Theater (1736), was made possible by the wealth of the slave economy.  The city’s first libraries came from slave money. Every nicety enjoyed by the Charleston elite life came from the work of the kidnapped and enslaved African majority.  So it’s understandable that people, reluctant to change, would hold on to the last of their livelihood as long as possible. It’s not unlike folks of today holding on to fleeting or dangerous economies (Coal. Guns. etc).

              Two and half hours later I was back in the city and starving.  At the recommendation of a friend, a South Carolina native, I ate my fill of mac & cheese and dirty grits (In Charleston they called the dish shrimp ‘n grits…but once you add the sausage and gravy…they qualify as dirty grits) at Poogin’s Porch.  The two sites I’d just visited framed my point of reference and my approach to absorbing historical Charleston. The cityscape captured my imagination of what used to be. Roaming the streets, I envisioned some distant relative once traveled the same path as me. I reckoned they probably looked at the same exchange building or churches I passed.  Gadsden Wharf was the busiest port for the nation’s slave trade capitol. But on this day, I watched an energetic fitness influencer pose for a photoshoot.  

As I wandered the streets, words from Olaudah Equiano’s autobiography came to mind, “We are almost a nation of dancers, musicians, and poets,” he wrote.  The beautiful, ornamental wrought iron work featured prominently around the city were designed and created by talented African blacksmiths.  The sweet grass baskets that Charleston is famous for (and charges a small fortune), are the handicrafts of West Africa.  The bricks that line the streets, make up the stately antebellum homes, and hold up Fort Sumter were all made by enslaved Africans.  The food culture of Charleston was made famous by African cooks, chefs, and caterers like Nat Fuller and Sally Seymour.  The beautiful gowns seen painted in portraits likely designed and stitched by African seamstresses, made out of African cultivated cotton, and all financed through African labor.   Any building, church, home, artifact of the period in the town, was either created by the wealth of enslaved African labor or physically built by the Africans themselves.  Even modern buildings were likely built from local revenue which continues to profit off of the antebellum history tourism (i.e. plantation weddings and tours). Equiano’s words were omnipresent as I wandered the painstakingly preserved French quarter streets.  This nation too, was full of talented African artisans and craftsmen. Every street I turned down I was surrounded by the works of my ancestors.

Charneice, with her back to the camera, leaps streight up on a cobblestone street and an ally of spanish moss draped live oak, and iron gates ahead.
At this moment, I was carefree, walking in my ancestor’s footsteps

The last stop of my Saturday was the ancestral plantations of the Drayton family at Magnolia Plantation.  Just six years ago, the plantation started to acknowledge the overlooked narrative of all the people who lived on this plantation. It offers a “From Slavery to Freedom” tour. I was suspicious of the how the plantation would approach this narrative when I bought my ticket. But my suspicions were alleviated by the tactful docent who led the tour with the dignity and respect the stories deserved.  The original slave shacks remaining on the plantation tell the stories of five different time periods.  The descendants of enslaved people lived in these cabins and took care of the grounds until the late 1990s when the last passed away.  I had been under the impression enslavers didn’t document where the people that they enslaved came from. But they did. In fact, in Charleston, they were very particular about where they seized people. Africans from the Senegambia region were specifically targeted for their rice cultivation skills. Before cotton became king in the south, rice was the cash crop of coastal South Carolina.  Charleston enslavers had been primarily familiar with rice farmers until they took hold of Angolan warriors. The warriors were transported over, said, “Oh hell nah,” then killed everybody at Stono Rebellion (also called Cato’s Conspiracy) just a little way outside of Charleston.  At the time, 40 percent of Africans in Charleston were kidnapped from the region now recognized as Angola.  After the revolt, a decade-long hiatus in abductions from Angola, among other preventative measures, took effect.

An original small, one room slave shack with one door, one window, and a chimny sits around vegitation
These confined shelters that once housed over 10 people per night humbled me.  

              The Year 2019 marks the 400th year that the ship, White Lion, docked in Virginia carrying the first people who were enslaved in America.  Ghana has declared 2019 as “The Year of Return” and invites all people of African descent to visit the West African nation.  If visiting your ancestral lands in Africa isn’t an option, Charleston makes a more accessible option. Even if your ancestors didn’t arrive in America this way, Charleston is steeped in the details that you can’t learn from textbooks and still worth the visit. Even after majoring in history, this weekend tourist trip to Charleston willed in so many gaps in the lessons I learned in school. If you’re looking for something more international, but closer than Africa, The Bahamas, Barbados, St. Kitts, Haiti, and Jamaica are other, closer options for a Black History Month getaway with deeply rooted African history that connects the stories of America’s African history as well.