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February 16, 2019

A Seat In The Cockpit: Revealing A Hidden Legacy

A middle school aged boy in cargo shorts and button up shirt walks with an experienced pilot discussing aviation and acedemic excellence on a flight line, as a crew memher gives a peace sign outside the parked airplane behind them.

One of the most magnetic people I know established my new favorite non-profit aimed at exposing a wider range of children to the thrills of aviation.  Legacy Flight Academy accomplishes this goal at one-day, Eyes Above the Horizon events that take place in various cities around the county.  Students interact with diverse pilots who instill the legacy of the Tuskegee Airmen and share tales of their flying adventures.  The highlight of the day is an introductory flight in the cockpit of a single-engine plane.  All of this is provided free of charge to anyone who takes advantage of the opportunity.  I’d heard so much about this award-winning organization that I had to get involved. So I boarded a plane to fly to Houston to volunteer.

Legacy Flight Academy: Eyes Above The Horizon

Early on a Saturday morning children start filtering through the Lone Star Flight Museum. I’m charged with leading a group of 20 or so 5th and 6th graders to their stations. The day is divided into four parts: introductory flight, Tuskegee Airmen legacy lesson, museum scavenger hunt, and hands-on simulation. Inquisitive, little minds absorb all the information and start making connections with context they’ve been provided.   When they ascend into the sky, a transformation takes place.  Packed full of new experiences, their little bodies come back down to Earth, but their perspective never does. I have the privilege of watching it all take place from a front row view.

All smiles while 5th grade children take turns checking out a fighter jet as they wait for their introductory flight.
All smiles while 5th-grade children take turns checking out a fighter jet as they wait for their introductory flight.

While shepherding the children through the galleries on a scavenger hunt, something becomes apparent for the first time. Of all the exhibits on aviation, Bessie Colman was the only black female aviator featured…in the entire, huge museum! Granted it’s a Texas-heritage aviation museum and Ms. Colman was a native Texan, surrounded by all the aviation history gives the appearance that Bessie Coleman was one of a kind. She wasn’t.  The stories of Mildred Hammons Carter, Willa Brown, and Janet Bragg are equally fascinating, especially for their time.  They taught countless other black men and women to fly.  Even with my background in history, spending my life in the Air Force, and teaching Air Force History, I had not been fully cognizant of the dearth of aviators that look like me until this moment.

Precocious children stay engaged with a Legacy Lesson of the Tuskegee Airman from a volunteer who was personally friends with a recently passed original Airman.  They asked so many thoughtful questions and offered their own insights.
Precocious children stay engaged with a Legacy Lesson of the Tuskegee Airman from a volunteer who was personally friends with a recently passed original Airman. They asked so many thoughtful questions and offered their own insights.

We laud the Tuskegee Airmen as the nation’s first military unit for African-American pilots. However, it wasn’t for all African-American pilots; just the male ones. Words matter, and so do the omission of words. When we leave out the word “male,” although perhaps implied, it glosses over the lack of opportunity for black women. Not explicitly stating the U.S. Army’s Tuskegee Flight School Experiment solely selected black men alters the context from a sense of inclusion for all black people to the reality of the exclusion of over half the black population.

While it is also essential to recognize that the U.S. military barred women in general from combat, and thus fighter pilot slots, during World War II, it’s also crucial to make abundantly clear, that black, female pilots, although qualified for non-combat flights, faced both gender and racial discrimination.  Even today, unless you specifically hunt for the contributions of black, female aviators, you won’t find them mentioned in movies or websites including Tuskegee University’s own. Even the supporting contributions women provided, to include training the Tuskegee Airmen to fly, are omitted.  

A vintage photo of Mildred pinning wings on her beau, Herb. Herb and Mildred Carter's 70-year, epic romance in the sky is one for the history books.  They weren't allowed to date while training at Tuskegee so they'd meet up in the sky above Lake Martin and blow kisses at each other from their planes. Mildred was the first black woman in Alabama to fly and first civilian hired by the Army Air Corp. She was retroactively designated a WASP 70 years after applying.  As far as my research takes me, she is the only person who is designated as both a WASP and Tuskegee Airman.
Herb and Mildred Carter’s 70-year, epic romance in the sky is one for the history books. They weren’t allowed to date while training at Tuskegee so they’d meet up in the sky above Lake Martin and blow kisses at each other from their planes. Mildred was the first black woman in Alabama to fly and first civilian hired by the Army Air Corp. She was retroactively designated a WASP 70 years after applying. As far as my research takes me, she is the only person who is designated as both a WASP and Tuskegee Airman.

The same is true for the Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps (WAAC) and Women Airforce Service Pilots (WASP). It wasn’t an inclusive program for all women. It specifically disqualified black women. So it wasn’t a Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps. It more accurately should be called the “White Women’s Auxiliary Army Corps” with a few waivers for non-black Women of Color.

I’d always identified with both groups of ground-breaking pioneers, only to realize that I wouldn’t have been welcomed in either.  We are still witnessing the early years of black female aviation. The first black woman to fly in combat was in 2001! That’s 60 years after the Tuskegee Airmen and WASP! Recognizing neither group would have had a place for me to fly was depleting as well as telling. 

After 8 hours of flight immersion, Legacy Flight Academy participants and staff gather for a group picture
After 8 hours of flight immersion, Legacy Flight Academy participants gather for a group picture.

After the all-day event wrapped up, a pilot for United Airlines invited the Legacy Flight Academy volunteers to crash at her sprawling secondary home. Fewer than 150 African-American women hold a pilot’s license (airline, commercial, military or instructor); she’s one of them. She’s also a founding member of Sisters of the Skies, a non-profit organization founded in 2015.   This organization doesn’t just accept black women as members, Sisters of the Skies is dedicated to increasing the number of black female aviators.  The friend who invited me to volunteer, a military flight instructor, took the lead in conducting a debrief and After Action Report to gain consensus on what went right and what could be done better next time.

Sisters of the Sky, an organization dedicated to increasing black female aviators to the ranks, muster at the Lone Star Flight Museum.
Sisters of the Sky muster at the Lone Star Flight Museum.

Legacy Flight Wrap Up

Someone once told me, “It’s either first class or no class.” Eyes Above the Horizon is first class all the way.  I’m still impressed that people that I call friends could dream this experience and turn it into an extraordinary reality. From the expansive museum and its knowledgeable staff, the pilots who volunteered their aircraft, fuel, and time, to the leaders who organized the event, everything was fantastic.  This community undertaking drew in over 100 Houston-area kids. Since this was my first experience with the Legacy Flight I only had praise to offer.

A Tuskegee Airmen and elementary age child, both dressed in red pose for a picture. Five generations apart these two share a joy of aviation.
One of the perks of the academy is the opportunity to interact with living legends. Five generations apart these two share a joy of aviation.

It’s About Belonging

With all the children gone, the volunteers and staff gathered at a local pilot’s home. Chillin’ around a kitchen, eating pizza and wings, laughing, joking, and contributing to the lighthearted revelry, we conducted a business meeting. I was in awe of the moment.  There I was, surrounded by black excellence. It’s a situation that rarely happens for me, yet everything about it was familiar. Surrounded by people that I just met earlier that day, I felt at home.  I knew it would be a long while before this happened again, so I intentionally captured the moment in my mind. 

For instance, I’d estimate there are fewer than 10 black officers on my Air Force base. Without intentional efforts, I can go months without contact with peers from a similar cultural background.  aired with my history of perpetually being “the only one,” camaraderie with black peers has been an infrequent indulgence my whole life.  Even more infrequent as an Air Force officer is the opportunity to observe other black officers lead and the access to socialize with aviators, let alone black aviators. 

a crew of modern day black air force aviators
Black aviators have just as much swag today as they did in 1944 (and slightly more women).

Around 10 flyers or so floated around the house. In addition to my flight instructor buddy, there’s one of his flight students, a bright, young woman who divided her attention between her studies and the lively conversation.  Another aviator present, a fighter pilot who earned his flying license before his driver’s license shared a video of his first flight solo as a child. A Surveillance and Reconnaissance pilot recalled highlights of the day which included the children asking if he can see outer space from his aircraft…he can!  The question and answer session took an awkward turn when the kiddos got very officious about his bathroom habits while wearing a spacesuit. He’d just recently bought his own plane for recreational flying.

A commercial airline pilot, who also flies for the Air Force reserves lamented his economical travel arrangements of riding shotgun to Texas, sitting on the uncomfortable hump (also known as the jump seat) between two the two pilots flying the plane. Navigators, air battle managers, and a few others with careers in aviation talked and joked with the group. And then there was me. As the furthest removed from aviation, I was a guest within the group but very much deeply embraced. We all just exchanged ideas, vibed, and enjoyed one another’s company. It was a pleasure.

A U2, high-altitude reconnaissance aircraft, pilot dresses a student in his space suit. Legacy Flight Academy class.
A U2, high-altitude reconnaissance aircraft, pilot dresses a student in his space suit. The U2, also called the Dragon Lady, first flew in 1955 and is a spy aircraft which can loiter in the air taking aerial pictures of an area of operation. Pilots must use liquid oxygen and a spacesuit in high altitudes.

I recalled a former, non-black Naval Aviator who once said Top Gun was what inspired him to fly.  Nothing about Top Gun appealed to me. When I watch Top Gun, I see an environment where I’m likely to get touched without my consent. In that situation, I can predict that I’ll have perspectives and ideas to share, but the group will dismiss them. Talked over and interrupted will be standard behavior.

Additionally, I can expect to be misunderstood and mischaracterized. I will have to tolerate racist micro-aggressions and get accustomed to both casual and overt sexism for the sake of being tolerated at all. I’ll be spoken to condescendingly or harshly if at all. They’ll go play volleyball on the beach, and I won’t even be invited (notice, the volleyball scene did not include the only black guy in the Top Gun flight class; that’s remarkably accurate). If included by the group at all, there will be a sense that I am involved out of obligation.  They’ll find singing “That Loving Feeling” amusing. I won’t. But I’ll have to pretend I do to avoid being the stick-in-the-mud. In other words, I can always expect to be ever so slightly out of place. Much like watching Top Gun from the screen, even if I were present in the group, I’d still most likely be on the outside looking in and kept at arm’s length. 
Legacy Flight Academy is a community event. Local Aviators dedicate their time, resources and skills to the cause.
Inspiring future generations is a whole community effort. About six Houston-Area pilots spent their Saturday volunteering to flying 100 students around. A local chain restaurant catered lunch at no cost. Local teachers rallied promising future aviators to the event.

Stanford University researchers Robin Ely and Debra Meyerson published a study that indicates that the male culture prevents women from excelling in corporate America. Other studies suggest that it is specifically White Male Culture that detours those who are not white and male from participation or struggling when they do.  I’d surmise that’s a major reason minorities and women avoid careers in aviation.  In other words, it’s not necessarily a lack of exposure, interest, or ability; it’s the culture.

Another study states, “Like fish in water, many white men never have to leave their culture from birth to boardroom. Often they are unaware they have a culture that others must negotiate.” Perhaps people outside of this culture are like aquatic frogs. We can swim with the fish from time to time but eventually, need to come up for air. Until hanging out with these guys, I never knew there was air for a temporary reprieve.

Among this group, I don’t stand out. There is no foreign culture to navigate. 
My dual consciousness isn’t employed. I don’t have to walk on eggshells to avoid my entire race being stereotyped by any action that I do that’s perceived as negative. I don’t need to regulate myself into perfection in order to debunk stereotypes. Any positive attributes aren’t seen as exceptional for my race because being exceptionally brilliant and talented is expected. I’m not tone-policed. I’m not a novelty, token, or commodity. Around these folks, my voice is heard and appreciated.  Here, no topics are avoided. For example, we discussed the merits of attending Cornell versus Hampton for undergrad which largely centered on race, inclusion, and acceptance.  One of the volunteers, the only Caucasian aviator in the group, quietly listened. No one felt compelled to code switch to accommodate his comfort.  We were all free to be our authentic selves.

Legacy Flight Academy Students inspect a plane inside a museum to answer questions on a pre-flight checklist. Young black aviators.
Students answer questions on a pre-flight checklist.

After Party Socialization

After stuffing our faces and concluding the meeting, we suited up for esprit de corps in the Houston nightlife. I did not stand out in the bar. It’s a rare occasion that going out with colleagues doesn’t include Journey, Bohemian Rhapsody, Copperhead Road, or Sweet Caroline. Although I’ve certainly had a blast belting out the words to Don’t Stop Believing and doing the Copperhead Road line dance, that music usually doesn’t make the cut to my celebration playlist.  It’s just as foreign to me as shouting, “tickie tockie tickie tockie” under an Octoberfest tent in Munich. Fun. But Foreign.

Lasting Effects of Legacy Flight Academy

After that weekend I did some research.  That research led me to the ground school at my local aero club the following Wednesday.  Not long after that, I took my first flight lesson with me in control of the throttle. I Flew A Daggum Airplane! I finally understood the hype my aviator friends had been talking about. That night my dreams were about flying.  This is the impact of representation. Having access to a flying community whom I could identify and where I belonged with was all it took to convince me to consider aviation after decades of being aviation adjacent.

In short, it’s not enough to sell aviation as a cool thing to do. That doesn’t make flying any different from all the other cool stuff active, ambitious people do every day. People want to belong.  Deep down, everyone wants to be part of something wonderful; that’s the very reason I traveled to Houston in the first place. The camaraderie within an elite network is what makes this profession or hobby unique. Knowing there’s a tight-knit community of people like me and has always been a community like me, is the most significant selling point in encouraging diversity in aviation. Being part of the flying world touches on the top three of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.  Who knew, I traveled to Houston to volunteer to plant seeds of aviation excellence in the impressionable minds of children not knowing Legacy Flight Academy would sow those seeds in me as well.

A dimpled, red-headed, black female teenage, licensed pilot and alum of Legacy Flight Academy shows younger children the sky is not the limit when it's her point of view.
A teenage, licensed pilot and alum of Legacy Flight Academy shows younger children the sky is not the limit when it’s her point of view.

***If you’d like to be part of something great by supporting the early exposure to the thrill of aviation to a wide range of children, you can donate here or inquire about volunteer opportunities. To learn how you can bring Eyes Above The Horizon to your hometown check out the Legacyflightacademy.org website. You can also list Legacy Flight Academy as your Amazon Smile non-profit.  Or donate as a birthday gift to me on my Facebook link or LFA’s.

Amazon Smile advertisement for Legacy Flight. Features children sitting in Jump seats in the back of a cargo aircraft.
In GloBelle Kitchen, Uncategorized on
February 11, 2019

Make Your Own Dog Food & Save More Cash For Travels

One of my friends brought to my attention that everyone is bougie about something. For one friend, it’s his laundry detergent. For another it’s his car. For me, it’s the food my dog consumes.

I won’t get too deep into the nutrition standards for processed American dog food verses European dog food (the government subsidizes more corn than humans can eat, and all of that surplus ends up as fillers in budget dog food. Corn is not part of a dog’s natural diet).  There’s the controversial “animal by-product” ingredient that incudes animals that were dead on arrival to the slaughter house then sat out in the heat for hours to days that gets packaged and fed to dogs. This is especially seedy when the ingredients won’t even tell you what animal the by-product came from (could be feeding your dog another dog). Animal by-products and filler corn are used because they are cheaper, not because they are nutritious. I like to know what I’m putting into my body which transfers over to knowing what my dog consumes, so I avoid this ingredient.

Char in the kitchen staring liquids from the slow cooker where she made the dog stew.
Straining from making dog stew in a slow cooker.

I spoil my dog with wet dog food as a daily part of his meal. But that gets pricy.  I alleviate costs while keeping nutrients by making my own wet dog food. Since two beings are able to eat the food instead of one, less food goes to waste in my home than it would if it were only me eating it.

By making your own dog food you can personalize and cater to your dog’s needs. A three-year-old working dog that pulls cargo on sleds for 40 miles in the snow is going to have different nutrition needs than a slightly pudgy, senior, medium-sized Boxer-mix who loafs on the sofa for 10 hours a day. Work with a professional to hone in on your pup’s nutritional requirements.

Proteins Fruits & Veggies Starches Oil
Hard boiled eggs with shells Carrots Rice Flax seed oil
Stewing Beef Green beans OatmealHempseed oil
Chicken Spinach BarleyFish oil/
sardines
Lean ground turkey Apple slicesSweet potatoes  
Anchovies PeasWhite potatoes  
Tuna Kelp Lentils  
Chicken/beef liver   Pumpkin  
Lean ground beef      

Important Note!!!   You want to avoid feeding your dog: onions, raisins, grapes, mushrooms, corn, garlic, avocado, nuts, sugars, chocolate, coffee, and citrus fruit. If you’re using sweet potatoes out of the can, be sure to rinse the sweet syrup off. You don’t want to cause diabetes in your pup. Pork is also not advisable because it is super fatty and could cause similar health issues in pets as it does in humans. So if you use it, use it sparingly.

A dish of rice, carrots and green beans
Memphis helps me eat veggies and rice.

Here’s a simple recipe but of course, you can get creative with the combinations.

2 pounds lean ground beef, turkey, or chicken (lamb, veal, duck if you’re fancy)

1 cup carbs like rice, oats, barley, or potatoes

2 Tbs Flaxseed oil

2 Tbs Hemp seed oil (provides omega 6.3)

1 Tbs ginger (manganese)

½ cup Kelp (iodine)

Egg with shell (calcium)

Small jar of anchovies

3 oz beef liver (copper, zinc, iron)

1 cup veggies such as green beans, peas, spinach, carrots

I go usually take one of three dog food cooking options: stew, meat loaf, or Blend

Sweet potato being cut into bite sized pieces. Other cooking utensils in the background.
Use the skin too. That’s where the nutrition is!

Blended Wet Dog Food Instructions

1. Cook the meat first (bake or cook on the stovetop)

2. Cook the carbs/grains until soft

3. Flash boil the veggies until soft

4. Crush the whole egg to the food processor

5. Mix all in a food processor (remember, dogs don’t chew their food 20 times so they don’t choke so the pieces need to be small)

6. Add other ingredients

Dog Food Stew Instructions

1. Brown the meat first.

2. Boil the rice until soft

3. Add all ingredients to a pot of water or broth and simmer for 45 min or so. You can also dump all the ingredients in a slow cooker as well.

Mix it all in: Carrots, sweet potatoes, green beans, rice, and chicken.

Dog Meat Loaf

1. Boil grains until edible

2. Use a food processor to chop and mix all the ingredients. Be sure to crunch up that egg shell in a food processor and distribute it to the mix.

3. Use your hands to mix all ingredients into ground meat.

4. Form a loaf and bake at 350 for 45 minutes or so, until the center is brown.

*another option is to make meatballs out of this.

Divvy out into individual containers or baggies and freeze until needed. Viola!

homemade dog food divvied out into containers.
A little more than a month’s worth of wet dog food for my 52 pound Boxer Mix.

Also note: I often use Missing Link Dog Supplements to make sure I didn’t leave any nutrition out.

In Uncategorized on
February 11, 2019

15 Lifestyle Changes to Cut Costs and Travel Farther

a 4-image quad of home images including a container of wooden spoons, neatly folded pastel sweaters, , well-organized kitchen shelves, blankets

When travel becomes a way of life rather than a departure from your standard lifestyle, the way you live at home takes on a new standards.  People often attribute a lack of funds to the reason that they’re not able to travel. With student loans and low paying jobs that I often read about in the news, I don’t doubt that’s the case. That said, I also think people have more access to funds than they realize.  If you’re gainfully employed to the extent that all your needs are covered, and if traveling is really a goal, I have a few lifestyle habits I employ while at home that stretch and reallocate my income to be able to travel farther, more frequently, and more comfortably.

You want to live for today but plan for tomorrow. Here’s a middle ground to cut daily spending costs without sacrificing comforts so you can travel more.

Note: I am aware this targets the Middle Class and may not be helpful for all. If you have more frugal lifestyle habits, I’m all ears.

Plane Ticket: Average Price Range $200-$1600

You can purchase a ticket from Louisville to Beijing for under $900 if you buy your ticket 4 months out. Louisville to Sydney, Australia costs about a grand. I use Louisville as an example because it’s not a major hub and usually requires connecting flights. Connections drive up the price meaning if you fly out of hub cities, you’re flights can be expected to cost less. Generally, the shorter the time period between the purchase date and take off date, the pricier the ticket. But bottom line, a grand will get you just about anywhere you want to be in the world. A little flexibility in travel dates will get you further. Here’s a few changes you can make to be able to afford a plan ticket.

1.Stop Buying Cable television ($600 year)

I stopped using cable back in 2010 after inadvertently getting sucked into an entire Saturday of marathon watching a family of vapid women act completely unrealistically.  It was then that I realized I didn’t really watch tv in the first place.  I’m working all day, then I focus on other projects when I get home. I’m never just focus on the television. On weekends I’m out and about being active.  At about $50 a month for 12 months, you’ll save $600 a year. That’s a pretty sweet plane ticket dang near anywhere in this hemisphere.  I nixed it in exchange for internet only and Netflix or Amazon prime (student priced).   No one really does TV anymore which is why the 1% is trying to further commodify the internet with their net neutrality (political pitch).

When it comes to sports, it’s so much more fun to watch games around fans. Just about every team has claimed a bar in Boston (the Eagle Bar is insanely fun) so I go to a bar if I want to watch a game or watch with friends or stream.

2. Nix Newspapers ($200 year)

Does anyone buy newspapers anymore? I mean, I feel like this is an older person thing. Any news you want to know can be found on the internet for free.  I don’t know how much your local papers are but to get the NY times delivered plus full digital experience is $3.63 a week (aka $195.57 a year) The Wall Street Journal will run you $240 per year (and that’s the 50% off special rate). Remember a $200 is an off season ticket somewhere.  

3. Try not to own stuff /Clear the clutter (save $2,000 a year)

I’m one of the Americans out of every 10 Americans that rents offsite storage—and it costs me $200 a month to store junk I never even see. I’m working on ending it, but that’s a vacation in its self.  British research found that the average 10-year-old owns 238 toys but plays with just 12 daily.  The average American family spends $1,700 on clothes annually and throws away 65 pounds of clothes (that’s a 10- year old) annually. According to Forbes, the average American woman owns 30 outfits—one for every day of the month. In 1930, that figure was nine.  I think I’m probably well above average, and when I’m not wearing my uniform, I wear the same rotation of probably 10 items over and over.

Owning stuff costs money.  The more you own, the more you’re going to need to pay to store. Which means you’ll need to pay more for a bigger place to live just to accommodate all your junk or you’ll need a storage unit. You’ll need to buy insurance to protect it or spend in maintenance to keep it in good working order.  If you can get by with borrowing or renting, do that. If you no longer need it, sell it. But stop owning things you don’t need, don’t use, or can live without. This includes a car if you live in a city with a great public transportation system. Additionally, clutter means you won’t be able to find what you need when you need it and you’ll end up buying a new one. Stop toting unnecessary junk around, get organized and get rid of it!  Purge it! For me, living in Boston, at an additional $200 a month for extra storage space, that’s $2,400 a year and a plane ticket to China!

Commit to consistent workouts at home before committing to paying for a gym membership

4. Stop paying for gym membership (saves $336 per year)

I’ve dropped hundreds on gym membership with a trainer when I was serious about body building. That lifestyle has gone by the wayside. Unless you have serious fitness goals, like competing in athletic events, you don’t need a gym membership. This is especially true if your company or apartment complex provides a gym. The causal fitness participant doesn’t need much to stay in shape. See if you can commit to actually sticking to an entire fitness regimen for a year before buying a gym membership. You can go to Soul Cycle, Zumba, Boot Camps, take Yoga classes, join a running club meetup, or get a DVD or better yet, use YouTube videos to boost your fitness. Buy a few weights, resistance bands, and/or kettlebells for $50.  Planet Fitness advertises $22 a month on their website. LA fitness advertises $34. Using the median amount, nixing gym membership will save about $336 per year.  That’s a ticket to the Caribbean or Europe if you live in Boston.

Lodging Costs: Average $8- $400 a day

Now that we’ve reallocated spending to find room for a plan ticket, let’s discuss the second largest travel expense, lodging. For places like Ecuador, you can stay in hostels for under $10 a day. Of course, $400 a pay on a hotel is also realistic. Apply the following changes to budget for lodging.

5. You don’t Need (More) Clothes. 

You already have more than enough clothes. You already have enough clothes. You already have enough clothes. I say this for myself and people who are like me. You have enough.

You don’t always have to replace an item that gets too worn, rips, or that you outgrow. If your jeans fall apart, you probably have 4 other pair in your closet. You don’t need a new pair. You’re not in high school anymore where you need (or think you need) enough different outfits to get you through a few weeks. Career men and women probably don’t wear jeans very often so they don’t need tons of pairs of jeans.  Dare I say two pairs will suffice?

Adapt your wardrobe purchases to your lifestyle. How many cocktail parties am I really attending per year to justify this wardrobe full of cocktail dresses? How many yoga pants does one girl really need and how much yoga (or fitness activities) is she really practicing? I know those pajama pants are cute but keep it real, do you even wear pajamas?

When you make buying a plane ticket your priority, you’ll think twice about spending a plane ticket amount on clothes that you don’t need.

New knee high boots can run you $200. Remember that when you rack up $200 worth of clutter in one card swipe, that’s a night in a decent hotel. 

When you do buy clothes…

If you were born in the 80s, you’ve been an adult for a decent length of time. You probably already have the necessary wardrobe staples. So now when you buy clothes, they’re trendy novelty items or accent pieces. Since these items will go out of style eventually, don’t spend much on them.

Shop at off-brand, discount stores like Primark, Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, Rainbow, Marshells, T.J. Maxx, and Target. Check out sale racks and clearance everywhere else. I know my bougie followers are thinking The Horror! Trendy tops that are going to be out of style next season don’t need to cost $50. Loud whisper: if you do squats, your butt is going to look cute in all jeans regardless if they cost $20 or $120. If you’re really bad it won’t take that much money to make you look good.

Look in the girls section.  For those of us who haven’t grown much since we were 12… you still fit a size 12 in the kids section. I copped $20 Levis in the little girl’s section and I have no shame.  At Primark, a women’s corduroy skirt was $20… guess how much the girls’ skirts were? Nine dollars! Dang near the same skirt (buttons slightly different) in the same store for more than half the price.  Plus the little girl’s skirt had pockets!

Now if you’re a 90’s baby and legitimately need (NEED!!) to build up your wardrobe staples in order to make money, go ahead and drop the cash. Otherwise, every day casual wear is not where you need to display your inner bougie.

6. Save While Spending Time with Friends.

The typical catch up with friends includes an outing with brunch/dinner, drinks, and entertainment. Drinks from Starbucks are $5, boba tea is $4, cranberry-vodkas run you $16 (in Boston), and restaurant soda adds $2 to your bill — all these little drinks add up. When you think about a whole dinner costing $2 in Ecuador, each drink at home really cuts into your travel food budget. Take the healthier option and drink water.

I’m all about YOLO, treat yo self, but going out and spending upwards of $100 to hang out with friends should be done in moderation. If you do go out, opt for coffee instead of a meal.  If you want to eat, a bowl of soup is usually one of the cheapest things on the menu and can be very filling.

You can socialize with Friends at home. Yes, it’s going to take cleaning up your home enough so it’s presentable. But you can pop open a bottle for after work drinks with chips and salsa.  Potlucks work for a crowd work. Since solo dwellers know how challenging it can be to cook for one person, share the food that would end up being leftovers during an intimate evening with one or two friends. Consider going to the grocery store to buy ingredients together then cooking together at home. This is ALWAYS cheaper and (usually) more fun. Plus, you can perhaps exchange recipes while you’re at it. For the price you’d pay for one meal at a restaurant (approx. $35) both of you can eat.

Food doesn’t even have to be the center of the social event. You can go for a walk together or work out together.

7. Make Your Own Coffee

This is the saving tip that gets repeated so often. I know it really doesn’t help for anyone who doesn’t consume the beverage. I’m a social coffee drinker. I don’t even own a coffee pot at home. I started the habit while deployed. I didn’t even know how to work the coffee maker then. I’m more into the flavored coffees and sugary stuff. If this is your thing, Starbucks makes pre-mixed sugary concoctions that you can pour over chopped ice at home to make you feel trendier.  Saving $5 on coffee per day, for 5 days a week, can be redirected to paying for 3 nights plus breakfast in a South American hostel.

8. Make your lunch (do this for 1 week earns you 1 day at a hotel)

I’ll admit I’m terrible at this. I’ll bring my lunch to work, change my mind about what I want to eat, and still go out and buy something else for lunch. I spent $110 in a week by eating out in December. For $110 I could have bought groceries for two weeks. For the money I spent in restaurants, I could have stayed a night in a hotel while traveling. This goes for days away from work as well. If you’re going to be away from home, pack a sandwich to eat while you’re out to avoid stopping at restaurants.

9. Eat before you leave the house.

While running errands, be sure to eat before leaving the house so you won’t be tempted to stop at fast food. This is true before going to work. This little tip is gentle on your budget and waistline.

Travel meals, on-ground transportation, entertainment: Average costs $4-$300 per day

If you’re disciplined enough to incorporate the previous practices into your daily life for a few months, you’ll save enough to get you to your destination and secure a place to sleep. You’ll still need to eat while traveling.  Try these ideas to cut costs while you’re not travelling so you have enough funds to eat well while on the road.

10. Make Your Own Laundry Detergent

On top of the list of the many things millennials are killing is the laundry detergent industry. But check this out, a solo millennial can make a years’ worth of non-toxic laundry detergent, chemical free, for like $5.  Everybody has that friend who sells essential oils.  Just get some good smelling oils from them, and I’ll show you how to make your own detergent.  Fabric softener is really just water softener, and you can use baking soda or vinegar for that.  I know some people may be particular about their laundry detergent — I have a friend who refuses anything except Tide Extra Strength Sports Edition pods. That’s ok. We all have something we’re not willing to compromise on. For me, I never notice a difference.   At about $20 a container for laundry detergent and two containers a year for a single person, you score yourself a meal out when you make your own soap.

11. While You’re At It, Make Your Own:

  1. Dog food
  2. Dog treats
  3. Foam hand soap
  4. Non-toxic bath bombs
  5. Toilet cleaner bombs
  6. All purpose cleaner
  7. Hair masks, conditioners
  8. Body scrubs

12. Nix Impulse Buying Habits

“I forgot my body wash I need to buy more. I forgot to pack pajama pants, I’m buying new ones.” I didn’t actually forget to pack pajamas. I just didn’t consider that I’d be sharing a bed with my girl pal on a trip to NOLA and never considered that perhaps she might not want my pant-less body under the blankets with her.  

“Char, you don’t need new pajama pants or body wash. Just get in bed,” my frugal friend Katy told me.  And just like that, I avoided spending about $30 for a weekend. Get in the mindset of asking yourself if you can do without. If you didn’t leave the house with the intent of buying that item ahead of time, do you really need it? For the hostel I stayed in while touring Ecuador, $30 is a 3-night stay plus breakfast that I’d just saved.

13. Stop Buying Paper Towels

While you’re being a millennial and killing businesses add paper towels to that hit list. I meant to buy paper towels when I moved into my new apartment. Then, after three months, I realized I never did when I reached for them for the first time while frying bacon. Turns out, I really didn’t need paper towels after all. I let the bacon drain on a cooling rack. Makes me cringe when I watch people clean their counters with disposable paper towels when they could be using cloth. It just fills up landfills.

14. DIY Beauty Services

Can you pluck and shape your own brows? Can you give yourself a pedicure? Can you find a friend who can clip your split ends and deep condition your hair?  Is it possible that there’s a gentleman that will massage your aches for free (probably not). Reducing the frequency of these salon visits without nixing them all together will stretch your money further.

15. Junk the Junk Food

Chips, cookies, and sodas add up really fast and don’t do anything for you nutritionally. Stop buying these items and see what it does for your body and bank account.

And there you go!  These are just some of the changes you can make to stretch your dollar.  I’m sure once you start incorporating these habits into your lifestyle, you’ll find more creative ways of your own to trim the fat on your budget. With a little time and consistency, you should be able to put away enough funds to support your travels. If you have more ideas, be sure to share!