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October 8, 2024

Adult Language Learning After 30 is Possible

Adult Language Learning Spanish

We’ve heard it, time and time again about adult language learning: iT’s sO hArD tO LeArN A nEw LaNgUaGe aS aN aDuLlt.

They say if you want to sound like a native speaker, your chances are better if you start learning a language before the age of 10. The adult brain must learn the language plus fight against applying the language rules of their original language and retrain their brain. Ok, ok, we get what research says.

But after spending the past two years rapidly increasing my Spanish-language skills across Latin America, I’ve grown to despise that claim. We hear it so much as the prevailing topic regarding adult language learning. Which opens room for self-fulfilling prophesies and excuses not to learn after age 10. The truth is, while it might be challenging — it isn’t impossible. Adults learn new languages every day.  And we need to hear more of that conversation as well. Here are seven observations that need to be included in the language-learning conversations with just as much frequency:

1. Not all researchers agree on the same conclusions about the best learning age.

Researchers from three Boston Universities claim that even among native speakers, it takes 30 years to master a language fully. However, I noticed that the research never defined what constitutes mastery.  Does that mean mastery of your one dialect or multiple? Was AAVE one of the dialects used in the study? Does mastery include an academic vocabulary and understanding of syntax and rhetorical devices or simply being able to communicate on a day-to-day basis? Elissa Newport, a Georgetown University neurology professor specializing in language acquisition, still needs convincing of some of the findings in that research. “Most of the literature finds that learning the syntax and morphology of a language is done in about five years, not 30,” she says. “The claim that it takes 30 years to learn a language just doesn’t fit with any other findings.” Five years is a lot more encouraging.

    2. Childhood language learning is easier because we are better at teaching children.

    With children, we engage all sorts of language-learning tools! Books with repetition and rhythm are covertly teaching language. Books like “Brown Bear Brown Bear What Do You See?  It isn’t just a silly little children’s book. It’s a phonics book that builds vocabulary. The interactive song game Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes is a language tool. So much interactive play as a child is geared toward making learning a language stick. As adults, we are given a long list of words to conjugate and commit to rote memory without context. If we want adult language learners to build language skills, we need to get them playing and singing and actively using the language within the context more!

      3. Native English speakers don’t know language-construction rules in English.

      Gather 100 English speakers with post-graduate degrees, and you’d be lucky if ten could accurately identify or define a “past participle.” If you asked the same group to identify a split infinitive in a paragraph or, better yet, just identify the infinitive. Very few, if any, would get it right.

        Yet, this is a common way we approach foreign languages. The strongest emphasis is placed on grammar rules and language construction. We introduce topics like, “This is the conjugation for the past participle in Spanish.” That means nothing to most people. They don’t know what to do with that information. People do not know the technicalities of grammar laws, yet not knowing the rules does not impact their fluency.

        I remember my high school Spanish class. We had this lengthy back-and-forth between the teacher and a student that went like this:

        Teacher: Ustedes is the plural you form.

        Student: There’s no plural of me. I’m the only me.

        Teacher: No, no, it’s when you’re talking to a group of people.

        Student: Why would I say “me” to a group of people?

        This continued for way longer than it should, with the teacher using sterile, academic grammar terms. Finally, after so much back and forth, I realized “plural you” means “y’all.” When I announced my epiphany, a sigh fell over the class.   No one rationalizes in their English-speaking mind that they’re using a first-person singular or first-person plural pronoun when they speak their native language. Yet, we expect adults to recall that construction when learning a new language. No one would explain “plural you” to a five-year-old learning a new language, yet somewhere along the way, we start teaching teens and adults this way.

        4. Adult language learners need to hear language used in context.

        Hearing the language used in context is pivotal for adult language learning. Language Instructors give adults and older teens a long list of verbs to conjugate with torturous drills. A native Spanish-speaking child has never done a single “o, as, a, amos, ais, an” drill a day in their life. They’ve heard word endings used in context and know when something sounds wrong. This method needs more prominence in the adult language learning approach.

          Additionally, words and phrases don’t always directly translate. For example: “ir” means “to go” in Spanish. So naturally, when I placed my order, “Quiero una hamburgessa, no lechuga, ir,” I caused confusion. Finally, after two months of confusing Guatemalans, someone finally understood my direct translation. “Para llevar” or “For to carry” is how is the way to communicated this desire in Spanish. That real-life context gave me a learning experience that I will never forget.

          5. Adult language learners want to know everything at once.

          It takes a baby takes one year before speaking. Then, they only know a few (about 50) words most pertinent to their little worlds. These words are usually about familiar relationships and food. But adults want to know how to flirt, ask directions, order meals, discuss complex history, geography, and weather, ask questions, speak on the arts and politics, and tell compelling stories immediately!   

            Managing the expectation of needing to know everything at once and prioritizing the topics most pertinent to one’s age group and interests will not only give adult language learners confidence but also motivate them to delve deeper into learning. An adult will quickly lose interest if, after four months, all they’ve learned is “Donde esta la bibliotheca” or “Yo vivo en la casa azul” when they really need to learn how to order a medium-well steak.

            6. We need a mix of native and non-native language teachers.

            The United States already has an overall teacher shortage. According to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences, teachers who are qualified to teach Spanish are even rarer. Often, those teachers are not native speakers or from a Spanish-speaking culture. However, knowing the culture is vital to knowing the language. Nuances and idiosyncrasies in how a language is used cannot be learned isolated from the culture. One must to go beyond textbooks and dictionaries to understand connotations. Native Language Speaking teachers aid in that connection.

            That’s not to say non-native foreign-language teachers don’t have value. On the contrary, they fill the gaps in how students process a second language. Going back to my experience with translating “y’all” into Spanish, a culturally astute native English speaker teacher with awareness of southern dialect English would have known how to make that connection to a class of Kentuckians.

            7. There’s no standardization of the Spanish taught in the United States.

            Additionally, in the US, students get a cornucopia of native language speakers. Vocabulary and expressions can vary from country to country and Spanish teachers (native or not) are not always aware of or acknowledge the differences. New learners may get a teacher who emphasizes European-Spanish one semester and Mexican-Spanish the next. In my experience, language instructors often completely leave out the Spanish used in Southern South America.

            On the other extreme, teachers may introduce the multiple forms of Spanish at once. For example, in Spain and Mexico, “coche” means car. But in Guatemala the same word means pig and everyone uses “auto.” I learned both. However, in Chile it means stroller. In four semesters of Spanish, that never came up. All of my teachers drilled “vosotros” used in Spain but never mentioned “vos” and “sos” used in South America. American language learners end up with a unique hybrid. My Spanish tests would include “How would you say xyz in Spain.” Meanwhile, native speakers thoroughly learn their one dialect before later being introduced to other variations. The lack of standardization of Spanish can lead to information overload, disengagement, and more time learning depth rather than breadth.

            Adult language learning is possible and we need to emphasize language-learning conversations around opportunities rather than missed learning windows. Emphasizing that learning a new language later in life is an uphill battle is one of the major roadblocks to learning. Nothing — not age, not technique– improves learning outcomes more than curiosity a can-do approach to learning.

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            February 28, 2024

            African-American Musical Canon Part I

            Collection of early 20th Century Jazz artist including Fats Waller, Fats domino, Louis Armstrong, ella Fitzgerld, Billie Holiday,and Bessie Smith

            From the soul-lifting messages of 19th-century spirituals to the lyrical revolution of 21st-century hip-hop, the African-American musical canon has always served as a powerful force capable of inspiring minds, lifting spirits, uniting communities, and fortifying the resolve of communities facing challenges. This exploration of African-American musical heritage provides a gateway to appreciate the diverse artistic achievements that have shaped American society and resonated globally.

            Ways to Study & Appreciate the African-American Musical Canon

            The best way to appreciate the African-American musical canon, of course, is to listen. Buy the whole album, stream, or download (I provide some links). Next, incorporate the music while you clean your home, prepare for the day, and during car rides. Watch performances on YouTube. Dance. Move your hands as if you are conducting the band. Imagine the visuals. Learn about the performers’ backgrounds and accomplishments. Understand the conditions and historical events in which the composers created the music. Consider the purpose — uplift, mobilize, tell a story, unite, educate, entertain, bear witness, and send a message. Consider the audience. 

            Additionally, to enhance your appreciation of the music, see if there are movies about the artists to watch and learn more about their lives. Here are a few examples: United States vs. Billie Holiday (2021) is an American biographical drama film about singer Billie Holiday, available to stream on Hulu. Clint Eastwood directed and produced the movie “Bird (1988) on the life of Jazz saxophonist Charlie Parker.  The award-winning film Ray (2004) followed the life and times of musician Ray Charles. Without further ado, the African-American musical cannon:

            Negro Spirituals (Antebellum-Civil War)

            In his first autobiography, Fredrick Douglas described Negro Spirituals like this:

             “Every tone was a testimony against slavery, and a prayer to God for deliverance from chains…”

            Enslaved Africans in the United States drew upon the oral traditions of West Africans, singing to survive the trauma of slavery. After emancipation, recognizing the significant heritage of the songs, individuals worked to document the lyrics. Different groups, like opera singer Marian Anderson and The Fisk University Jubilee Singers, provided some of the first recordings. These songs became the foundation of the African-American musical canon.

            The spirituals, disguised as church songs, often had hidden messages. For example, if the enslaved heard someone singing, “Steal Away, steal away, steal away home, I ain’t got long to stay,” they understood it was an alert that this may be the last time around loved ones because an escape was imminent. “Follow The Drinking Gourd” was a message telling those planning an escape to follow the North Star to freedom. “Wade In The Water” gave instructions to travel through water to avoid being tracked by hound dogs. The song “Go Down Moses” alerted everyone that Moses (as Harriet Tubman was called) was on the way.

            Negro Spirituals in the African-American Musical Cannon 

            1. Go Down, Moses   
            2. Steal Away
            3. Swing Low Sweet Chariot 
            4. Follow the Drinking Gourd
            5. Wade in the Water 
            6. Swing Low Sweet Chariot
            7. I Got My Ticket
            8. Jesus Leads Me All the Way
            9. All God’s Children Got Shoes
            10. Balm in Gilead
            11. He’s Got the Whole World in his hands
            12. Sometimes I Feel Like A Motherless Child 
            13. Trampin’ Trampin’

            The Harlem Renaissance 1918–1937

            By the late 1910s, African-Americans from the Deep South, Afro-Caribbean expatriates, and Puerto Ricans found their home in the former Jewish neighborhood of Harlem. Harlem flourished as the epicenter of a new cultural movement. The Harlem Renaissance was an African-American intellectual, artistic, and cultural renaissance during the build-up and aftermath of WWI; due to the beginnings of The Great Migration, African Americans from the South and Caribbean immigrants settled in Harlem. Musicians born during the Reconstruction Era had grown up, matured, and experienced their musical heyday. 

            Song List of the Harlem Renaissance Cannon

            1. James Weldon Johnson (1871–1938) & his brother, John Rosamond Johnson (1873–1954) – Lift Every Voice And Sing. 
            2. WC Handy (1873- 1958)- (1)Memphis Blues, (2)St. Louis Blues, (3)Muscle Shoals Blues, and (4) Beale Street Blues.
            3. Ma Rainy (1886-1939)- (1)Prove It On Me Blues, (2)C.C. Rider, (3)Black Bottom, and (4)Moonshine Blues.
            4. Jelly Roll Morton (1890- 1941) – King Porter Stomp and Black Bottom Stomp. 
            5. Bessie Smith (1894 -1937) – “Backwater Blues” and “Alexander’s Ragtime Band.” “Empty Bed Blues” and “St. Louis Blues” were inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame. “Down Hearted Blues” was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Grammy Hall of Fame.
            6. Ethel Waters (1894-1977)- Her impact expanded through much of the 20th century, from segregated vaudeville to Broadway, television, and movies. She integrated Broadway when Irving Berlin cast her in the starring role of ‘As Thousands Cheer.’ She was the first African-American nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award. She was the first woman to sing “St. Louis Blues,” making her a national icon. She had a role in Cabin in the Sky with Lena Horne. Some of her most known songs are “Stormy Weather,” “Miss Otis Regrets,” and “Cabin in the Sky.”  
            7. Duke Ellington (1899-1974) – It Don’t Mean Thing if It Aint Got That Swing,” “East St. Louis Toodle,” “Black Brown and Beige,” and “In a Sentimental Mood.”
            8. Louis “Satchmo” Armstrong (1901- 1971)- “What a Wonderful World,” “La vie en Rose,” Hello, Dolly! Dream a Little Dream of Me,” “Mack The Knife,” “A Kiss To Build A Dream On,” “Blueberry Hill.” ‘When the Saints Go Marching In,” “Summertime,” “Can’t Take That Away From Me,” “Aint Misbevain.’
            9. Cab Calloway (1907-1994) Band leader best remembered for his “Hidy Hidy Hidy Ho.” 

            Additional Listening

            1. Noble Sissle (1889- 1975) – composer, lyricist, bandleader, singer, and playwright famous for the song “I’m just wild about Harry” used in the 1921 Broadway Musical, Shuffle Along.
            2. Lester Young (1909-1959) tenor saxophonist and occasional clarinetist
            3. Sidney Bechet (1897-1959) Clarinetist, saxophonist, and composer.
            4. John “King” Oliver (1881- ) Cornetist
            5. Count Basie (1904-1984) led his orchestra for 50 years. He popularized the lindy hop.
            6. Fats Waller ( )
            7. Johnny Dodd (1892- 1940) Clarinet
            8. Fletcher “Smack” Henderson (1897- 1952) was a Prolific Composer. Most compositions were performed by others.  Shanghai Shuffle is one of his most famous compositions.

            Depression Era & Jazz Age of African-American Musical Canon 

            1. Ella Fitzgerald (1917-1996) debuted during the early days of the Apollo Theater’s Amateur Nights in 1934. After singing “A Tisket-A-Tasket” in 1938, composers and bandleaders like Count Basie, Duke Ellington, Irving Berlin, and Benny Goodman couldn’t resist collaborating with her. The song was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame. She popularized the musical style “Skat.”  Her best-known songs are from Gershwin’s songbook and duets with Louis Armstrong, like “Puttin’ On the Ritz.” 
            2. Billie Holiday (1915-1949) is a songstress best remembered for her performance of “Strange Fruit” — a song so controversial it made her a target of the CIA. She also sang the Gershwin songbook.
            3. Charlie “Yardbird” Parker (1920-1955) helped develop bebop. His best-received albums include Savoy (1944), Bird At Roost (1949), An Evening at Home with Charlie Parker Sextet (1950), and Jam Session (1952)
            4. Miles Davis (1926 -1991) is one of the most (if not THE MOST) prolific jazz composers of the 20th century, playing the trumpet on over 60 albums from 1951 to 1985. He’s known for his long jam sessions (we’re talking 13-minute songs). His best-received albums are Kind of Blue (1959), Porgy and Bess (1959), Birth of Cool (1957), and Sketches of Spain (1959).
            5. John Coltrane (1926-1967) –played tenor and soprano sax in big bands with Dizzy Gillespie. His most notable album is Blue Train. Naima, a ballad written for his wife, is one of his most loved songs. His song, “Giant Steps,” is still studied by jazz musicians. The song “Alabama” from his Live At Birdland album was written in response to the 16th Street Baptist Church bombing. His rendition of Favorite Things from the Sound of Music…is just…wow!
            6. Ray Charles (1930–2004) – Most famous songs: I Got A Woman & Georgia On My Mind.

            Additional Listening

            1. Dizzy Gillespie (1917- ) trumpet player. Best known song -Swing Low, Sweet Cadillac,
            2. Herbie Handcock (1940- 
            3. Fats Waller
            4. Fats Domino – The Fat Man
            5. Willie Mae “Big Mama” Thornton (1926 –1984)- Hound dog 

            Civil Rights Music in the African-American Musical Canon

            The Civil Rights Era ushered in a new genre of freedom music. In the soul-crushing times of Jim Crow, African-Americans used music to strengthen, resolve, uplift, empower, unite, and inspire. These are the songs that Freedom Fighters sang during freedom rides, during sit-ins, while unjustly jailed, and in churches. Fannie Lou Hamer and Mahalia Jackson are just among the voices that characterized the movement.   Freedom fighters adapted some of these songs from classic church hymns; others were originals. Written Lyrics can be found on the PBS site. Additonally, you can purchase the soundtrack to the movement here (I own this album). Another good option is this collection.

             “The freedom songs are playing a strong and vital role in our struggle..They give the people new courage and a sense of unity.”  – – Rev Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

            Civil Rights Song List

            1. Lift Every Voice and Sing
            2. Woke Up This Morning. Additionally, John Legend also does a modern edition of this classic.
            3. We Shall Overcome  
            4. Keep Your Eyes on the Prize 
            5. We Shall Not Be Moved (March on Washington) 
            6. Ninety-Nine and a Half Won’t Do
            7. Go Tell It on the Mountain (Fannie Lou Hamer, 1963) 
            8. This Little Light of Mine (Sam Cooke 1964) 
            9. Strange Fruit – (1939)
            10. Take My Hand, Precious Lord (Mahalia Jackson, 1956) At his request, Mahalia sang this song at MLK’s funeral in 1969.
            11. We Are Soldiers in the Army
            12. I’m Gonna Sit at the Welcome Table
            13. Mississippi Goddam (Nina Simone, 1964)
            14. Long Walk To D.C. (The Staple Singers 1968) 
            15. Change Gone Come – Same Cooke
            16. People Get Ready – Curtis Mayfield
            17. The Revolution Will Not Be Televised

            Black Power/Black is Beautiful Movement (late 60s-1990s)

            In the late 1960s through 1970s, the Black Power/Black is Beautiful Movement was a cultural revolution that encouraged African-Americans to regain connections to the African continent. After centuries of struggle, this was the period in which African-Americans started forming and celebrating a national, ethnic, and cultural identity. From Afro-centric names, African-centric aesthetics (afros & dashikis), art, literature, scholarship, and music, Black people in America unapologetically embraced all aspects of Blackness. For example, Maulana Karenga developed Kwanza during this Black empowerment period. Muhammad Ali made sure everyone knew how pretty he was. “Five on the Black Hand Side” became a popular phrase of endearment.  Additionally, the Black people of Brazil and Jamacia also had parallel movements.

            1. James Brown, ‘Say It Loud – I’m Black and I’m Proud’ (1968) 
            2. The Staple Singers, ‘I’ll Take You There’ (1972)
            3. Nina Simone, ‘To Be Young, Gifted and Black’ (1970)
            4. Stevie Wonder, ‘Living For the City’ (1973)
            5. Gil Scott-Heron, ‘The Revolution Will Not Be Televised’ (1971)
            6. Bob Marley, ‘Redemption Song’ (1981)
            7. James Brown – I Feel Good 
            8. Marvin Gaye – “What’s Going on?”  
            9. Jimi Hendrix- Star Spangled Banner
            10. B.B. King – How Blue Can You Get?  

            In summation, familiarity of these songs is so essential to knowing the culture. These are critical songs that each generation should know. This is just the foundation of the African-American musical canon. Continue to Part II to learn the modern classics. Don’t forget to follow up for part II.

            Also, while you’re in African-American heritage mode, check out these 28 books I compiled for a Black History Month reading list and this Black History Month Reading List for Young Readers.

            In Assignments on
            August 13, 2023

            The Poet X

            Side by side images of the author and her book. First the Poet X pays on a furry white rug with a house plant next to it. the second is a waist-up portrait of Elizabeth Acevedo outside in a button up denim shirt over top a white tee-shirt, curls popping in all their glory.

            As an Elizabeth Acevedo stan, if she writes it, I read it. After reading Elizabeth Acevedo’s Clap When You Land, I became obsessed and had to read everything I could by the author. That led me to this book. This book, The Poet X, comes off as autobiographical and coming of age. It dealt with some heavy topics that teens have to navigate. It was relatable. I loved it!

            Summary

            The Poet X is the coming-of-age story of Xiomara (pronounced zee-o-mara) Batista, an Afro-Latina, spoken-word poet from Harlem, and her shy, sensitive twin brother. 

            Xiomara finds herself at the center of nasty rumors that she has done nothing to deserve but develop into womanhood on God’s timing. Her development is the source of her teenage angst.

            And so she fights.

            She fights for her sensitive twin brother. 

            She fights for herself.

            The Batista twins both hold secrets and look forward to the day they can break free of them. It’s about the complex worlds of teenagers and the adults in their lives (parents and teachers) who just don’t understand.

            Xiomara’s devout, conservative Catholic mother’s primary goal is to preserve her daughter’s virtue — even to the detriment of her daughter’s mental health and self-image. Some themes — sexuality, religion, and adjusting to developing bodies are relatable to most girls who grew up in Purity Culture. 

            The poetry in prose discusses the challenges little girls transforming into womanhood have while navigating this gross society we’ve built for them and the well-intended, poorly executed ways parents call themselves protecting these children. Note: You don’t notice the story is written in poetry.

            About the Author

            Elizabeth is a New York City first gen, Dominican American Spoken Word Poet. Check Elizabeth’s phenomenal spoken word poem, “Rat Ode,” that she dedicated to a professor who told her rats were not noble enough for a poem. This is the first of Elizabeth Acevedo’s books and is highly lauded as a NYT Best Seller and  2019 Printz Award Winner.

            Why I Loved It

            I found myself pissed off at the side characters. Like, where did they get off talking to Xiomora like that? The hero me would be telling off everyone — her mama getting the largest piece of my mind. Her daddy needs to deal with too. And the boys in her neighborhood and school need their heads knocked off.

            Where are her people? Who is protecting her?

            It breaks my heart to hear of parents who call their daughters names. She’s a little girl — Same age as my niece. But this Dominican girl in Harlem is in a big, voluptuous body. And she can’t catch a break. 

            My heart goes out to the girls whose bodies get attention from men at a young age—especially those with parents who don’t help them navigate the challenges in a healthy, helpful way. 

            The almost abusive religiosity of well-meaning mothers reminded me that I am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter. Xiomora is not your perfect Dominican daughter. 

            Both mothers destroy a notebook symbolic of their daughter’s spirits. Do these mothers not understand a notebook and understanding parents is the strongest arsenal a girl can have while navigating this challenging transition from childhood to womanhood? 

            Key Quotes:

             “I am the baby fat that settled into D-cups and swinging hips so that the boys who called me a whale in middle school now ask me to send them pictures of myself in a thong.”

            “Just because your father’s present, doesn’t mean he isn’t absent.”

            “When your body takes up more room than your voice, you are always the target of well-aimed rumors.”

            “And I knew then what I’d known since my period came: my body was trouble. I had to pray the trouble out of the body God gave me. My body was a problem. And I didn’t want any of these boys to be the ones to solve it.”

            “So many of the poems tonight felt a little like our own stories. Like we saw and were seen. And How crazy would it be if I did that for someone else.”

            “Hope is a thing with wings.”

            Other Books to enhance your comprehension of this book:

            Talking Back to Purity Culture: Rediscovering Faithful Christian Sexuality by Rachel Roy Welcher

            Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free

            I hope you dive into The Poet X like I did and read other books by this author. 

            In Assignments on
            August 13, 2023

            With The Fire On High

            Two seperate photes. The first is a head shot of the author, elizabeth Acevedo surrounded my a halo of dominican curls. The other shows Spanish and English versions of the novel "With The Fire On High" against a wood background.

            Elizabeth Acevedo makes me fall in love with her writing again in this novel, With The Fire On High. With The Fire On High is a coming-of-age story about a third-culture teen of African-American and Puerto Rian descent learning to juggle the responsibilities of teen motherhood while chasing her culinary dreams in Philadelphia. 

            In Spanish, the title is El Ingrediente Secreto de Emoni Santiago.

            Before I get into the content, let’s first marvel over that cover art! If you want to judge a book by its cover, With Fire On High is the book to do it. This story is beautiful both inside and out. 

            Summary

            Emoni Santiago is a talented 17-year-old, intuitive chef who must learn rigid conformity in her culinary class to elevate her cooking. She desires to tour Spain with her class and become a professional chef, but she has a few barriers to opportunities. Her mother passed away during labor (a high statistical probability for African-American women). Although her father is present in her life, he chooses to live in Puerto Rico, leaving his mother to raise Emoni. As such ‘Buela is now raising her third generation of babies (Emoni’s dad, Emoni, and Emoni’s two-year-old daughter Emma).

            Emoni is busy going to school, working, being a mother, maintaining friendships, cooking, applying to college, and having a chance at love. She has to sort through motherhood sacrifices and prioritize not only her desires but what will be best for her little girl. The adults in her life support her, but she has until graduation to figure out the best path for her life. She has to act quickly because the fire is on high in her life.

            Why I Loved With The Fire On High

            • I don’t know how she does it, but Elizabeth Acevedo writes compelling characters that you want to root for. The way the author makes the reader invested in the success of the protagonist is a skill writers envy. In this case, you have a perceptive, determined, hardworking teen who has experienced adversity. But you can’t help but hope everything works out for her. You keep reading because you’re genuinely excited to learn which of the bright paths toward her future she might choose.
            • The way the author addresses multicultural topics through dialogue provides an education that might lessen the strain of multicultural kids.
            • I grew up during a time when adults pushed the narrative that unmarried pregnancy was the worst thing that could ever happen in hopes of scaring teens, girls in particular, into abstinence. This book takes a more balanced approach. While getting pregnant during your freshman year of high school isn’t ideal, motherhood is still a challenging but rewarding charge. This book explores the hardships with equal clarity as the tenderness and joys.
            • And then there’s the food. Food, for me, is always a fun topic to read. In the novel, food is the central theme surrounding togetherness, community, connection, history, and healing. Just like in her novel, Clap When You Land, the author sure knows how to write about food in a way that stirs the senses!
            • Emoni’s story is thought-provoking and relatable to everyone who has gone through that major life transition into adulthood. With The Fire On High tops my praise list. I’ll recommend its lessons and positive messaging to everyone over the age of 17. 

            That said, this book also mentions themes and topics of:

            Descriptive depiction of teenage sex (page 44), mentions immature sexual innuendo amongst teenage conversations, Teen Parenthood, LGBTQ+ issues, Death, Caregiving, Cultural Identity, Community, and mentorship.

            I always want to point out a few things that might raise a yellow flag for parents. You can’t always blindly trust that YA fiction is really suitable for young readers (age 13-18).

            Other Books By Elizabeth Acevedo that I adore are Clap When You Land and The Poet X

            Other Books that center food:

            A Pho Love Story by Loan Le

            The Secret Recipe for Moving On by Karen Bischer

            In Assignments on
            August 13, 2023

            Clap When You Land: A Book Review

            The colorful, stunning cover of the Book "Clap When You Land" is showcased on a white boookshelf with other, white hardback books with spines facing backwards. Three charming houseplants are also visable.

            Clap When You Land was my favorite book of 2020. No! Maybe my favorite book ever. Elizabeth Acevedo knocked Louisa May Alcott off her throne and became my favorite author after this book. By page 12, I was ugly-crying. I continued crying until the very end when I was cheering through my tears when the strength and boldness of Dominican women united (I may or may not have been PMSing while reading this).

            Background

            In November of 2001, a plane headed to the Dominican Republic crashed. Some 200+ people in the sky and five on the ground perished. Once investigators confirmed it wasn’t another terrorist attack like September, the tragedy faded from the memory of most Americans. But American Airlines flight 587 rocked the New York Dominican community. Everyone in the Dominican in NYC knew someone personally affected by this tragedy. The author, a poet by trade and part of that community, imagined this story and wrote this prose-in-verse fiction about the story that could have been someone’s on board.

            I heard Acevedo perform her poem “Hair” years ago. I didn’t realize she was the same poet until I did some post-novel author exploration. Based on our shared relationship to hair politics and her uncanny expression, I already loved Elizabeth Azevedo’s use of words before I picked up her novel. Check out her talk at Summit on Inequality and Opportunity.

            The author, Elizabeth Acevedo, got her MFA in creative writing from the University of Maryland, a BA in Performing Arts at George Washington University, and taught 8th grade English in PG county.  She realized her students were unmoved by books they couldn’t relate to. She considered buying more diverse books but then decided to start writing them, and I’m so glad she did.

            Summary

            Each chapter of Clap When You Land alternates perspectives from two teenage girls— one from New York, one from the island — who learn their family’s secret when a plane crashes. The death of a parent alters the lives of their children in all cases; the stakes are higher for some than others. The main characters navigate through some pretty heavy situations for young girls to deal with. Clap When You Land is the story of blended families, sisterhood, motherhood, class strife, forgiveness, family, and belonging. What is done in the dark comes out in the light. As this novel reveals, the light is often through births and deaths. The book takes us through a journey of grief, loss, and mourning but also through gains, love, and celebration.

            Oh, and there are mentions of LGBTQ experiences. People like knowing that ahead of time for whatever reason, even though it doesn’t play a significant role in the book. 

            Why I Loved It

            Keeping it real, I picked this book to read during Latin American History and Heritage Month because the cover art was stunning.  Yes, I select books by the cover, and this time it paid off — the book was just as stunning on the inside as it is on the outside.

            It’s warm. Touching. Emotional. Clap When You Land used the most beautiful assemblage of words for depictions of the Caribbean setting. The descriptions of the traditional cuisine introduced me to a delicious traditional Dominican dish and inspired me to cook it. New York Dominican culture and the cultures of the African- Diaspora also found the spotlight in this novel. The way the plot unfolded at the right pace — the way the author wove themes and symbolism throughout was just perfect. The writing style was on point…I just love how the author thinks.

            There was a heroic moment where all the women, and their ancestors, show up for each other. They are each the heroes. I can see my mom in the character. Myself. Every woman I know in the characters. I think that’s what usually makes me attached to a book— when I can see myself in it.

            James Baldwin once explained how writing can change the world by saying, “The world changes according to the way people see it, and if you alter, even but a millimeter, the way people look at reality, then you can change it.” This book expanded my understanding of the world. It changed how I see flawed men, families, forgiveness, tragedies in the news, people who grow up in challenging conditions, and the conditions that some women have to support themselves. I look forward to some studio grasping ahold of this story and turning this moving tale into a movie. It was so good!

            Other books with Alternating Perspectives:

            Aces of Spades by Faridah Àbíké-Íyímídé

            Other books I’ve reviewed by Elizabeth Acevedo:

            With Fire On High

            The Poet X 

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            January 11, 2023

            Book Review: Black Girls Must Die Exhausted

            The cover of Black Girls Must Die Exhausted by Jayne Allen lays on a white sheet with small house plants, reading glasses and other books

            Make Black Girls Must Die Exhausted a Netflix series already! (Or HBO since Netflix wanna be funny about account sharing)

            𝑩𝑳𝑨𝑪𝑲 𝑮𝑰𝑹𝑳𝑺 𝑴𝑼𝑺𝑻 𝑫𝑰𝑬 𝑬𝑿𝑯𝑨𝑼𝑺𝑻𝑬𝑫 is the darling first book of an incomplete trilogy written by Harvard trained attorney and engineer, Jayne Allen. I read the first book via hard copy. I had to listen to the second book, Black Girls Must Be Magic, on audiobook since I can’t be lugging books all around Central America. This post combines both books. I’m so invested in discovering what happens next in the Black Girls Must Die Exhausted series. I can’t wait for the last book to be published! This series focuses on the thirty-three-year-old broadcast news reporter Tabitha “Tabby” Walker.

            It’s A Romance, Kinda. 

            I love a good romance. But this is a millennial love story. So… you know the struggle. Unfortunately, Tabby has a reproductive disorder. So, instead of waiting for her flakey lawyer/Sanford Alum situationship, Marc, to put a ring on it, she decides to put motherhood into her own hands via insemination. Her non-committal dude reminds me of Lawrence from the HBO series “Insecure”… he’s super annoying with all the excuses.  

            Without giving too much away, there’s one scene in the second book where Tabby’s boyfriend’s mama gets on my nerves. I’m even more annoyed at how gracefully Tabby tolerated what I consider disrespectful. And how her boyfriend sat back and allowed it to happen. If in the same situation, I would have either a) just removed myself from the table without speaking or b) been just as rude back.

            Y’all got to read this book and let me know how you would have handled this situation. If you’ve read this book, let me know what you think. I need someone to discuss this with.

            While the primary “kinda” love story focuses on a guy who won’t commit, the real love story is Tabby’s bond with her grandmother. “Granny Tab” (who is white) and her Black granddaughter, Tabitha (whom Granny Tab calls “Two”), is warm and endearing. The book series gets its name from an observation Granny Tab makes while having a chat about their different identities and how they move differently in the world.

            It’s Modern-Day Millennial Life

            There are typical millennial work stressors, family obligations, and ride-or-die besties. There’s confidence struggles. Adn of course, some unique professional issues Black women have to navigate. It tells a believable story of what it is like being a young, Black, female professional in the 21st century. And that’s what resonated most with me. I can see parts of my own experiences sprinkled throughout — it’s unique because I’ve never read the story in print before. 

            We all understand the complexities of “situationships” I’ve had conversations surrounding artificial insemination with friends. One of my friends recently took motherhood into her own hands instead of waiting to see if the universe would make motherhood happen for her in time. And apparently, the author has had those convos too. 

            Both books can be read as stand-alones. Tabby is a likable, relatable character. Overall, it’s a light-hearted, realistic read that I looked forward to continuing each time I took a break (and honestly, I read both within a day). I’d recommend both for vacation reading. 

            For similar titles on young Black women navigating professional life, check out The Other Black Girl

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            January 11, 2023

            Book Review: The Other Black Girl

            I just finished The Other Black Girl last night. With a chapter left to read I was prepared to write a review on how I didn’t really like it. I was seriously ready to question ʙᴏᴏᴋ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏɴᴛʜ’ꜱ judgment on making this a top 5 book. But there was a plot twist I didn’t see coming.

            One of my reading pet peeves is when books carry on with extraneous details that don’t move the story along. GET TO IT! I yell at the author in my head. They seemed to talk about hair and hair supplies in ad nauseam. At one point, I started thinking of all the lengthy descriptions that could be deleted to make the text shorter. I WAS WRONG! The details that I thought were negligible came together at the end and were pivotal to it all. And that’s the point. The characters thought the details were insignificant too & didn’t predict the surprise ending.

            Storyline to The Other Black Girl

            Anyway, Nella is the only Black person at a prestigious NYC publishing firm, Wagner. As a result, she’s isolated and lives with daily microaggressions. And, of course, she’s powerless to say anything, lest her collegues labele her an Angry Black Woman — the professional kiss of death! So, when Hazel shows up at Wagner, Nella is excited to not be the only one anymore. But that’s also when the creepy notes appear: “LEAVE WAGNER. NOW!”

            Oh! And it discusses how much Boston sucks due to its insidious hostility toward Black people. It goes in on Boston the same way I would write about the city. The author knows her setting. This contrasts with the book, “ɪᴛ ᴇɴᴅꜱ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴜꜱ” by Colleen Hoover took place in Boson but, with all the characters being white, glossed over Boston’s noted racism.

            I’ve read other reviews that criticized the lack of realism. I have to remind readers —it’s non-fiction! Did you also criticize the book about a centipede and a little boy floating in a giant peach? But I thought the most obvious pieces of fantasy were the parts that made you think — The parts that people have said, “Wouldn’t it be nice if…” 

            Overall Assessment…

            The Other Black Girl is a hot suspense with “Get Out” vibes. This book is a must-read among Black women’s book clubs. I’d love to hear the discussions. A first-time author wrote this novel, so don’t expect a masterpiece. I like the plot. I think the author could have polished the way she told the story. But it did leave me wondering if I were in the main character’s position, which path would I choose?

            Definitely read this book with your girlfriends and discuss. I’d like to hear what you have to say in the comments!

            To read move novels on Black women navigating professional spaces, read Black Girls Must Die Exhausted by Jayne Allen

            #bookreview #blackbookstagram #bookrecommendations #20booksby20blackwomen #theotherblackgirl #publishing #naturalhaircare #writersgoingtowrite #zakiya #editorialassistant #hairgrease #blackwoman #blackgirl #blackgirlmagic #microaggressions #20booksbyblackwomen

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            January 11, 2023

            End of Year Reflections: Choose Your Life

            Charneice, feeling her best in Antigua Guatemala after End of Year Reflections

            I spent the final days of 2022 in quiet reflection of the incredible year of travel I had. I spent the first week of the new year reconnecting with family and sharing our discoveries from our collective end-of-year reflections.

            I’m in awe of the year I had.

            Seriously, what was this past year?

            It was nothing short of a whirlwind of red letters. This year I did exactly what I wanted. I went where I wanted. I got what I wanted.

            Usually, I make do. Like…(metaphor time), “Here are the ingredients the universe has handed you; make the most of them.”
            And I do. The meal turns out good enough.

            However, this past year was different. Good enough wasn’t the goal. This year, I knew what I wanted to whip up for myself. This past year, I went to the market. I sourced the exact ingredients I needed to make the meal I wanted to eat. And it was a buffet. And we’re not talking after church, Golden Corral buffet. We’re talking continental smorgasbord. It was everything and more (Charles Dickens reference).

            And that’s what’s got me so pumped up. Endorphins flowing. Dopamine surging.

            I kept trying to figure out why this particular year differed from the rest. After days of mental back-and-forth, it all boils down to this: This year was the best for me because I chose it. I didn’t settle for it.

            The autonomy to make choices for yourself is really something. And I’m not talking about the freedom to settle for the good enough out of the limited options. The ability to choose your own path is so exciting and refreshing. I wish I had taken the helm sooner.

            And maybe everyone has already figured it out, and I’m late to the party. I always saw those platitudes about going after what you want, and I was like…” Yeah, yeah, I’m doing it,” without assessing whether I was actually going after my dreams or just settling for good enough. Now the “ah-ha” light has gone off. This is what those motivational quotes have been talking about all along.

            Charge For Next Year

            I’m serious when I say I hope everyone can feel the way I’m feeling right now. I hope everyone can have a year where they choose what’s best for them and their life.

            If you haven’t already, take time for your own end-of-year reflections. You could reflect on whether you are living the life you dreamed of. Maybe your reflection doesn’t involve travel. Maybe your dreams aren’t travel-based. Really assess if you have lost sight of your dreams. And remember that they are still possible. Is your life getting you closer to your dreams? Let me know what 2022 taught you in the comments.

            #dreammore #dreambigger #dopaminerush #sheisnotlost #travelmore #positiveenergy #affirmations #womensempowerment

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            October 21, 2022

            Stay Productive and Focused As a Digital Nomad

            A laptop, sitting on an outdoor desk make shift beach office is a charming setting to stay productive and focused as a digital nomad

            When you’re regularly jet-setting to exciting, new settings, focusing on the career that funds your lifestyle can be a low priority. Being a digital nomad means being able to concentrate and produce quality products from anywhere.  When trying to stay productive and focused as a digital nomad, I can share what has helped me. 

            For the past four months, I’ve joined the 35 million strong digital nomads across the globe. For the bulk of that time, quaint coffee shops in Antigua have served as improvised offices. I’ve taken conference calls from a beachside co-working space in Honduras. Bungalow desks overlooking Mayan jungles in Belize have been my headquarters.

            1. GET YOUR MIND RIGHT  

            It took a while to wrap my head around the concept that, while temporarily living in a UNESCO World Heritage Site, I am not on vacation. I am not a tourist. I’m a woman on an extended business trip. My mindset needed shifting. Yes, I may be steps from an ancient Mayan cultural heritage site. However, I am here to do a job. Once I shifted my mentality, I was better able to stay productive and focused as per usual for all the other (boring) business trips I’ve taken before. 

            2. SET UP YOUR OFFICE RIGHT AWAY

            Before booking a place to stay, I filter my search for places with Wi-Fi. Although not required, I look for places with a dedicated workspace. I also check for the proximity to coffee shops, co-working spaces, libraries, and universities with wi-fi nearby, just in case. 

            When I touch down in a new place, the first thing I do is check Wi-Fi speeds, service, and the noise level of the area. I unpack my laptop and supplies to get my makeshift “office” set up right away. That way, all I need to do in the morning is sit in the chair and log in. Setting up early provides time to pivot if I need to figure out alternatives. 

            3. CREATE DAILY ROUTINES

            I get it, the point of nomad life is to get away from the ordinary. However, that only applies to your environment. I thrive on structure. When none exists, I create it for myself. The best part of remote life is that I get to determine what makes sense for me instead of trying to conform to other people’s preferences. I’m constantly tweaking the practices that cater to me. Of course, these routines might change based on the atmosphere and the rhythm of the local community.

            My morning routine and first 30 minutes at work remain consistent. I’m most productive and focused when I use workflows. My workflow includes tasks that need attention outside of work, too. 

            Curate structures and experiment with routines until they are perfectly tailored to you. 

            4. Make Time for Fitness and Food 

            A well-nourished body is essential to concentration. As part of my routines, I keep a set time for getting outdoors and making sure I eat lunch. Even if my fitness consists of 15-minutes of calisthenics on the hotel balcony, I accomplish it before lunch. It’s easy for me to power through the day without food. By 4 pm I feel starved and beige of chips and banana bread. That’s not the best way to go! Also, be intentional about getting veggies in.

            5. Flock to Other Digital Nomads

            Honestly, I hated staring at my computer while my new resort buddies went off to enjoy a 4-hour Caribbean reef dive. To avoid feeling left out, find folks who have a similar work-play schedule. Even if your residence has excellent Wi-Fi, now and then, use the local co-working sites — if only for networking. Building a community with groups like Salena Hostel, Remote year, or Noma Collective can help you stay productive and focused as a digital nomad (even when you’re not officially part of the group). 

            6. Embrace Slow Travel

            Ask those who have ever traveled with me — I am known to cram a lot in a day. However, digital nomad life isn’t a vacation —even in a recreation destination. When I’m obligated eight hours a day; leisure mode waits until after 4 pm. That doesn’t yield well for a three-day, mid-week getaway. I’ve found the longer I give myself in a place, the less urgency to do and see things immediately! That takes a lot of pressure off. Give yourself plenty of time to explore a place before jaunting off elsewhere. 

            When you’re location independent, you exchange traditional office distractions for a new set of challenges. I hope these tips and tricks I’ve shared help you stay productive and focused as a digital nomad. Let me know what works best for you!

            #blackdigitalnomads #nomadic #nomadness #digitalnomads #locationindepenence #expats #ebonyexpats #blackexpats #travelwriterepeat #focused #productive #coworking #remotelife

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            September 2, 2022

            How I Budget for A Travel Lifestyle

            Money, glasses, and a caculator sitting on a desk

            I am not the one to come to for budgeting advice. Fortunately, I have people in my life who are money gurus. My mom is the family finance babe and is forever updating budgets for me and my sister to follow (with various levels of success). 

            Fortunately, I’m a little more motivated to budget for travel than I am for everyday life. Travel is one of my main priorities. And since I travel so frequently, I have to be wise about my spending. This plan is intended for those who travel frequently but of course, works for the occasional traveler. This is what works for me and how I budget for a travel lifestyle

            1. Set A Goal.

            As with any goal, you got to start with the End in Mind or Begin with your WHY. Budgeting for a travel lifestyle is no different.  Start by thinking about what you’re saving for. I have two goal-setting methods.

            Method 1 Travel Budget Based On Location

            Decide on a vacation. Price out all the expenses for that destination. Then save toward that trip.  For example. Perhaps you want to go on a Mediterranean cruise. The cruise itself is all-inclusive and costs $2000. The Flight to the port will cost you $400. Airport parking or transportation to the airport will cost about $150. Then you want to save $1,000 for excursions, additional meals on shore, massages & facials, gifts, and other extraneous purchases. Pet sitting or house sitting during the trip may cost $1,000.

            This trip will cost you $4,550

            Take your time and start saving. Give yourself as long as it takes to reach your goal.  The world isn’t going anywhere (for the most part…I mean climate change and political upheaval can certainly put a wrench in travel plans). There’s no need to rush or put yourself in a financial fix or mental health predicament by overextending yourself over a travel budget. 

            I like this trip savings calculator by mint. Travel Budget Calculator – MintLife Blog (intuit.com) 

            Method 2 Travel Budget Based On Time

            Save your money for an allotted time, then determine where you will go based on how much you have. The key here is to find the best deal based on the money you have. Perhaps you know you want a birthday trip but not sure where you want to go just yet. Or maybe you want to go somewhere for summer vacation or to ring in the New Year.  So your travel dates are 4 months out. Start Saving putting away money and as time grows closer (say, six weeks out), decide where you’ll go based on what you can afford.  

            With $1K USD, you might travel somewhere in the off-season but that’s enough for a solo belle (or beau) to take a nice trip. You might be limited on how far you can go and how long you can stay but, you can go somewhere. With tour agencies, like G adventures, you can take an 8-day trip around Morocco for as little as $800.  With a budget of $2,000 so much of the world opens up to you.

            Since I travel internationally multiple times per year, I do both Travel Budget Goal-setting methods.

            So now that we have two goal-setting methods to budget for travel let’s figure out how to budget for those methods.

            2. Assess How Much Money You Have and Where you Are Spending Your Dollars.  Pull out all your bills, bank statements, and receipts (even those sent to your email) to track and account for every penny of your past three months. You’re likely to be surprised when you’re not guessing where you spend the most money. See how much money you have to work with after the bills (including your savings) are paid. See where your frivolous spending adds up ($20 shopping sprees at the Dollar Tree buying…random knickknack anyone? No? Only me? Ok.)

            3. Reduce Spending. Figure out where you can cut your expenses.  Start with subscriptions. Do you really need both an Audible, Book of the Month, and Scribd subscription? Can you cut one of your movie subscriptions?

            If you cut a $15 Audible subscription, $12 Prime subscription, $10 Netflix subscription and put that $37 a month directly into a travel sinking fund — You’ll have $444 in a year. That is a plane ticket for most places within your own hemisphere. Or a month’s stay in a hostel.  

            Search for free entertainment activities. Don’t center your social events around restaurants.  Wait a day or two before you impulse buy nonessential items. Cook what you already have in your pantry.

            4. Make More money! Side hustles, second job, make it happen. My best job was working after school program for the YMCA. I had so much fun spending my afternoon with little kids. IT didn’t pay much. But those little $200 checks here and there, that I wouldn’t have been getting otherwise, really added up when applied to a travel saving. There are tons of ways to pinch pennies here and there when you’re focused on a goal.

            5. Set up a separate fund dedicated specifically for your travels. Shop around for banks with high-yielding accounts and savings programs. Then automatically deposit a recurring set amount each month or with each paycheck. Of course, you’ll want to travel credit card (compare Chase and AmEx) that works for you.

            6. Claim Your Travel Lifestyle. Some people have a sports lifestyle. They buy season tickets; they go to away games. They invest in the big screen, surround sound, host game parties, rent the camper for tailgates, have the outfits…the whole 9 yards (10 yards? 50 yards? Idk, I’m not a sports person). And they don’t get married during football season. And maybe spending a lot of time and money going to art galleries and buying sculptures is not their thing.

            If travel is your lifestyle, maybe you’ll do less of everything else so you can travel more. Perhaps you’ll have a smaller home (since you’re hardly there anyway). Perhaps you miss exquisite parties that require a new outfit and hair in favor of an extravagant hotel on the cliff.  Maybe, instead of spending money on luxuries at home, you hold off until you can do them abroad (nails, hair, and massages are often cheaper in other countries).

            7. Do not neglect your long-term savings & rainy day fund. Travel is not an excuse to dip into your future. Your sinking account for travel is not the same account for long-term savings. You never know when a global pandemic (or other semi-natural disasters) might come along and you’ll need your savings to live.

            It might not be fast turnaround but little by little you’ll watch your travel budget grow and have a decent-sized travel fund before you know it.